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What's Up Wednesday??

This thought was really helpful to me. I had to push through major panic attacks to make some important phone calls. I kept telling myself that all I needed was a few moments of bravery. How could one minute of courage help you today? #PTSD #Addiction #Migraine #BipolarDisorder #MentalHealth #Anxiety #ChronicFatigue #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #Depression

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Parent who gets angry/frustrated when I cry #MentalHealth

Just needing some affirmation and advice. Thank you in advance for reading 🥺
I’ve been having car troubles the last few weeks and a lot of stress piling up with that and other things. My relationship with my parents is strained at best and extremely harmful, toxic, and manipulative at worst. The last two days have been at the worst starting with my mom yesterday and now my dad today.
I was leaving the car shop with some bad news and was feeling overwhelmed thinking about finances and what to do and had communicated my stress on the phone to my dad. He kept carrying on berating me saying that this is just life and i need to calm down in a tone that was really dismissing while i was sobbing. He kept saying pull it together. I said hey can i talk to you later i need to go calm down and he got mad and yelled FINE BYE and hung up. I had a panic attack in the shower for a long time. I can’t get over that he got pissed that I needed to calm down and was annoyed at me expressing my emotions.
Sorry this is long. I just feel like i have no one to talk to right now, and I’m not doing great. I hate feeling like a burden to everyone in my life.

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Psychodynamic Therapy: Why It's Considered the Most Effective Therapy

If you've ever been in a "talk therapy" (not behaviorally-focused), you've likely been in a form of psychodynamic therapy. Psychodynamic therapy is like peeling back the layers of an onion. It helps you explore the depths of your mind to understand why you think, feel, and behave the way you do. This approach involves uncovering the unconscious patterns and life experiences that shape your present life and mental health.

At its core, psychodynamic therapy understands that the unconscious mind plays a significant role in everyday life. People are complex, and the solutions aren't only about what’s seen on the surface—it’s more about learning and resolving deeper patterns of past relationships, childhood experiences, and hidden desires. A psychodynamic therapist will help you connect the dots between your past and present, giving insights into why you might struggle with specific issues. It also goes beyond only awareness and insight. A significant part of effective psychodynamic therapy also involves working through and processing the emotions that have been carried over time. When you've processed and worked through the carried emotions, they no longer hold power over you and your life.

How Psychodynamic Therapy Works

Beyond building a supportive foundation and a trusting relationship with your therapist, which is important in any therapy, in psychodynamic therapy (which is also known as psychoanalytic therapy) we will explore your deeper thoughts and feelings, which also includes relational and emotional patterns over the course of your life. Experiences such as dreams are also important in understanding your unconscious motivations and stored emotions that are having an affect on your present life as well. The outward and underlying conflicts that are getting in the way of your emotional health or your present life are worked through as we get to more deeply understand where they are stemming from.

Why Psychodynamic Therapy Stands Out From Other Therapies

Focus on the Unconscious

When you engage in psychodynamic therapy, you explore the depths of your unconscious mind. Unlike cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), which focuses more on changing thought patterns and behaviors, psychodynamic therapy helps uncover the deeper underlying motivations that often keep people repeating the same unwanted patterns again in the present. As you peel back the onion, you gain more insight and are able to release the stored emotions as you go.

Emphasis on Past Experiences

In a psychodynamic therapy, your childhood experiences and past relationships are fully relevant in shaping your current behavior. How we are as adults stems from a younger age where we learn about the world through experiences, which shapes who we are in the present. It’s not about dwelling on the past, but understanding how your past influences your current relationship with the world (and other people), which all influences your mental and emotional health.

The Therapeutic Relationship

In psychodynamic therapy, your relationship with your therapist plays an important role. It’s not just about getting advice; it’s about creating a safe space to express yourself freely. This relationship often mirrors patterns in your other relationships, giving you valuable insights into your interpersonal dynamics. You are also able to work through negative patterns from your life that may start to show up in your therapy. It is actually quite common for patterns from your life to come into your therapy. People often think it means their therapy or therapist is bad when they see or feel something negative in their therapy. However, this is often a good thing as it means the issues that are plaguing you are showing up in a place where you and your therapist can give attention to it together.

What Psychodynamic Therapy Helps With

If you’re struggling with persistent emotional challenges, relationship issues, or simply seeking deeper self-understanding, psychodynamic therapy is a good option. It’s particularly helpful if you:

Find yourself repeating unhealthy patterns

Struggle with emotional regulation

Struggle with unresolved childhood or past experiences

Want to explore the roots of your thoughts and behaviors

Find yourself often ruminating or fantasizing about present issues or other points in your life

Psychodynamic therapy can be a helpful approach for people who are struggling with a variety of mental health issues, including:

Depression

Anxiety

Panic Attacks

Relationship issues

Trauma

Phobias

Other issues that have persistently been unresolved

The Psychodynamic/Psychoanalytic "Talk Therapy" vs. CBT Debate

There has been a debate about whether psychodynamic therapy or cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is "better". I have worked with both, and I can say that while CBT has its helpful points, CBT often is at its most helpful when it's used as a supplement to psychodynamic therapy. I've found over time that psychodynamic therapy works much better for longer-term success because of its depth, and going at your pace. CBT generally seems to have short-term success (as CBT is a shorter term therapy that doesn't get to the deeper core of issues). CBT usually works well to provide coping skills for symptom management for certain issues while doing the deeper psychodynamic work.

Something that people often don't realize is that psychodynamic and psychoanalytic therapy also addresses your behaviors. The difference is that CBT believes that changing behaviors resolves mental and emotional struggles (sort-of a 'fake it till you make it' approach), whereas psychodynamic therapy understands that it's not nearly this simple (it's often very hard to create longer-term changes when you're struggling emotionally on a deeper level).

The way I've always described the difference between CBT and psychodynamic therapy is that CBT is the bandaid over the wound, and psychodynamic therapy cleans out and heals the wound. When the wound isn't healed, however, eventually the bandaid isn't enough.

Finding Help

I always recommend to be sure your therapist has been trained post-graduate in a certified psychoanalytic institute if you're looking for psychodynamic therapy, or "talk therapy". There are many therapists who abuse the term "talk therapy" and don't have the appropriate training or experience to truly provide an effective depth therapy. It's okay to ask a therapist when searching what their background or training is in.

#Psychotherapy #MentalHealth #Anxiety #Depression #Trauma #Phobia #Relationships

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Pain is high

It just spiked to 8. I think I might be able to take 2 tramadol now. I didn't remember what time I last took them. Usually I have to ask my caregiver for pain meds but she let me have the bottle of tramadol in my room. So I don't have a point of reference to see when I had it. I'm gonna have to get a notebook or something.

My tummy hurts. I've got gas pains. And I have a migraine. I had a little panic attack today after dinner. I had a plate of food on my bed and some of the goo got on my hand. I ripped off the tips of my nails again but I used nail clippers to fix them. Mostly.

#ChronicPain #BackPain #hippain #Migraine #PanicAttacks #Anxiety #MentalHealth

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Feeling like a frightened child again. Updated

I'm getting really apprehensive about tomorrow.I am pacing around and can't settle. I am seeing my Dad. Last week, he had a major go at me on the phone saying how my tyre on my car was worn and wasn't legal. It was fine as it had only just had its yearly check. You will crash, you will kill a child, the police will arrest you , it won't be my fault as i have told you...its illegal. If you turn up without getting a new tyre by monday, i won't be getting in the car. He went on and on and on, having a rant at me like i was a child again. After 1½ hrs i managed to get off the phone. I was a wreck, it had already been an emotionally draining day. I went into a panic attack. I managed to get my youngest daughter on video call as , by this time, i was uncontrollably crying, i couldn't get my breath and thought i was going to pass out. Bless her she managed to get my breathing under control. I came off the phone and the feelings arose in me again , I had 3 days to get these tyres sorted. What if i couldn't?, what will i do on Monday he will miss his Covid booster nd it will be my fault. Panic again consumed me, and the only escape i had was to self harm.
Even though i do not need tyres i bought all four and managed to get them fitted before tomorrow. I spent money that i couldn't afford. All this because I am still scared of my Dad and the way he makes me feel. He still has a hold over me
#MentalHealth #Depression #Anxiety #Selfharm

Update:
Well, I made it through the day with my Dad. He still went on about the tyre, was being loud and making inappropriate comments about people walking passed us and other things. But because we were out I tried my best to switch off from my surroundings and his non stop talking, even though inside I was full of mixed emotions, and desperately wanted to get to the safety of my own home. I am so glad I found The Mighty. Being able to share my thoughts, worries, or anything else and having your support means so much. Thank you 😊

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Love this so much!!!

So so so much of my life is sleeping. As a senior in high school my body was creating so much pain I would black out often so my body could get the rest it thought it needed.

Having such a messy schedule is its own problem but sleeping best during the day is still true to me.

I always ignored the doctors who said naps were the worst thing to do but I knew I felt a thousand times better after sleep. And if I didn't sleep, my already sky high pain would triple.

So I was up from 1Am to 6AM.
Now I am at waking at 6AM and then 3pm though it is forever Changing.

My best advice is to listen to your body, what does it NEED??
Not just want but Need too?

You are the You expert, show em how it is done!!!

#AmplifiedMusculoskeletalPainSyndrome #Arthritis Asthma #Anxiety #AnkylosingSpondylitis #bedbound #BoneSplints #ChronicFatigueSyndrome #CheckInWithMe #ChronicPain #ChronicIllness #ComplexRegionalPainSyndrome #Depression #Disability #DistractMe #EhlersDanlosSyndrome #Endometriosis #Eczema #Fibromyalgia #GastroesophagealRefluxDisease #Grief #gallstones #HypothyroidismUnderactiveThyroidDisease #Hypersomnia #HighBloodPressure #Insomnia #JuvenileRheumatoidArthritis #Upallnight #CheerMeOn #Lymphedema #PosturalOrthostaticTachycardiaSyndrome #PTSD #Psoriasis #PsoriaticArthritis #Psychosis #PanicAttack #PanicAttacks #plantarfasciitis #MentalHealth #MemoryLoss #MightyTogether #Migraine #RareDisease #RheumatoidArthritis #SuicidalThoughts #Scoliosis #sciatica

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Love this so much!!!

So so so much of my life is sleeping. As a senior in high school my body was creating so much pain I would black out often so my body could get the rest it thought it needed.

Having such a messy schedule is its own problem but sleeping best during the day is still true to me.

I always ignored the doctors who said naps were the worst thing to do but I knew I felt a thousand times better after sleep. And if I didn't sleep, my already sky high pain would triple.

So I was up from 1Am to 6AM.
Now I am at waking at 6AM and then 3pm though it is forever Changing.

My best advice is to listen to your body, what does it NEED??
Not just want but Need too?

You are the You expert, show em how it is done!!!

#AmplifiedMusculoskeletalPainSyndrome #Arthritis Asthma #Anxiety #AnkylosingSpondylitis #bedbound #BoneSplints #ChronicFatigueSyndrome #CheckInWithMe #ChronicPain #ChronicIllness #ComplexRegionalPainSyndrome #Depression #Disability #DistractMe #EhlersDanlosSyndrome #Endometriosis #Eczema #Fibromyalgia #GastroesophagealRefluxDisease #Grief #gallstones #HypothyroidismUnderactiveThyroidDisease #Hypersomnia #HighBloodPressure #Insomnia #JuvenileRheumatoidArthritis #Upallnight #CheerMeOn #Lymphedema #PosturalOrthostaticTachycardiaSyndrome #PTSD #Psoriasis #PsoriaticArthritis #Psychosis #PanicAttack #PanicAttacks #plantarfasciitis #MentalHealth #MemoryLoss #MightyTogether #Migraine #RareDisease #RheumatoidArthritis #SuicidalThoughts #Scoliosis #sciatica

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Navigating Complex Trauma: What Causes C-PTSD and How to Heal

Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD), also known as complex trauma, generally stems from enduring repeated traumatic events, frequently within a close relationship, over an extended period.

Unlike single-incident PTSD, complex trauma can lead to a range of psychological and emotional challenges manifesting additional symptoms, including impaired emotional regulation, altered consciousness states, distorted self-perception, and relationship difficulties.

These challenges can significantly impact your daily functioning, relationship dynamics, and overall wellbeing.

Causes of Complex Trauma

Causes may include physical, sexual, or emotional abuse, consistent neglect (especially in childhood), bullying, exposure to domestic violence, or living through intensely threatening circumstances (such as war, for example). However, complex trauma can also develop in adulthood due to ongoing mistreatment, such as domestic violence.

Childhood Abuse or Neglect: Physical, emotional, sexual abuse, neglect, or bullying can have a profound impact on a child’s development.

Witnessing Violence: Exposure to violence, such as domestic violence of parents in your childhood, or community violence, such as repeated fights at school growing up, or worse, can be traumatic.

Prolonged Exposure to Traumatic Events: People who are repeatedly exposed to traumatic events, such as war or natural disasters, may also develop complex trauma.

How to Recognize Complex Trauma

Psychological and Emotional Symptoms

Complex trauma often manifests through intense emotional experiences, including deeper shame, guilt, or feelings of alienation. You may experience altered states of consciousness, such as memory gaps in adulthood when trying to recall parts of childhood, or a sense of detachment from your emotions or physical self. To cope, you might avoid certain places, people, or experiences in general that trigger discomfort.

Complex trauma can also affect your psychological wellbeing. You may experience a persistent sense of worthlessness and shame, significantly affecting your self-perception and self-esteem. Emotional regulation can become really challenging with C-PTSD, leading to outbursts of anger or prolonged periods of sadness. It can also lead to phobias and fears that seem to be irrational, or anxiety that danger is lurking in places (or people) even when they aren't displaying actual signs of danger. These issues can significantly disrupt social interactions and daily functioning, limiting your life, making healing a complex (but essential) journey.

Physiological Symptoms

Complex trauma can also manifest physically. You may experience hyperarousal, feeling constantly on edge with heightened startle responses. Physical symptoms often include panic attacks, light-headedness, brain fog, fatigue, nausea, recurrent headaches and migraines, persistent muscular tension, gastrointestinal distress on a consistent basis, and more. These stress-related reactions can significantly impact your daily functioning and overall health.

Healing

Complex PTSD needs a mind-body therapy approach rooted in trauma healing. While this should involve some coping techniques, a trauma approach generally requires getting to know and work through what you are carrying on a deeper level in order to reduce and be able to shed the power these traumas have asserted over your emotional, psychological, and physiological wellbeing.

Other Coping Strategies

Self-Care

Self-care plays an important role in managing complex trauma symptoms and enhancing overall wellbeing. This includes anything from diet, to regular physical activity, such as walking, running, yoga, or swimming, for example. Physical activity generally helps to reduce stress, release tension, and help with mood regulation. Self-care also includes finding things that nurture you in other emotional ways, as well -- for some this can be reading, writing, art and other creative outlets, seeing friends, and anything else that's helpful for you.

Trauma Therapy

Remember, self-care is an essential part of healing, but it doesn't replace the deeper healing work that needs to be done. Often people try to use coping techniques to replace the deeper healing, and what eventually tends to happen is the deeper traumas that go unaddressed start to grow and take over, and can make it so the coping tools are no longer as effective. It's important in therapy to figure out the coping techniques that work for you, so you also have them available to you alongside the deeper explorative work.

#complextrauma #Trauma #Anxiety #MentalHealth #Depression #Migraine

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