Self-care

There is a lot of complexity when it comes to how we navigate our relationships. Those connections take time and effort to maintain, especially since we’re all different and have our own unique set of values and comfort levels.

When it comes to what you value in relationships, which love language do you find is the most important to you?

💌 Need a refresh on the love languages? You can find them below:

🗣️ Words of affirmation (I like to give and receive praise)
🤝 Acts of service (I like to help and be helped)
🫂 Physical touch (I like to give and receive affection)
❤️ Quality time (I like to spend time with others)
🎁 Receiving gifts (I like to give and receive gifts)

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This is one of the best tips I learned recently. It works for any situation and is especially helpful for when we are already irritable or frustrated.
(I've been using it a lot with my kids).
Who could you try this tip on?
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This week’s theme is all about love languages, Mighties!

We all like to show love and be shown love in different ways. These languages can help us to feel valued, appreciated, and seen in the relationships we build with others (and even ourselves).

Here is a list of what those 5 love languages look like:

🗣️ Words of affirmation: valuing verbal expressions of love, connection, validation, and encouragement

🤝 Acts of service: valuing the idea that "actions speak louder than words," feeling loved when others give a helping hand with thoughtful and selfless gestures.

🫂 Physical touch: Appreciating and valuing consensual physical contact with others

❤️ Quality time: Feeling valued and loved when others set aside time to spend together

🎁 Receiving gifts: Feeling loved with the act of giving and receiving tangible or intangible thoughtful gifts

Which ones are most important for you? Rank them from 1 to 5 in the comments below!

📚 Want to read more? Check out this article here: Do you know the 5 love languages? Here’s what they are — and...

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It’s OK to talk about suicide. About 12.2 million adults have thoughts of suicide. This peer-led support group is a safe space to talk about what it’s like to have those thoughts, how to manage them, and find community.

⚠️ For emergencies, always call the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline at 988.

💻 If you'd like more information or would like to join, you can find the link here.
Virtual groups are every 2nd and 4th Monday, 6:30 to 8pm Eastern Standard Time. Closed captioning is available: naminycmetro.org/programs/living-with-thoughts-of-suicide

If you have any questions, feel free to comment below!

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As a health community, we often talk about what it’s like to receive unsolicited advice, suggestions, or tips from people who may not fully understand the extent of what we experience day to day—but still share what they think we need nonetheless. 😤

For today’s reflection, though, let’s think about the advice we’d actually want to receive. What self-care or mental health tips, ideas, or suggestions would genuinely feel helpful to you right now?

I’ll go first!
Some advice I’d really appreciate is hearing how people maintain their relationships and friendships while also managing their mental health. I’d also like to explore how others navigate challenging conversations around pet peeves and boundaries.

What about you? 💬

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Let’s make some budgeting goals for the rest of March!

Mighty staffer @sparklywartanks says her main budgeting goal this month is to restock all of her home essentials before next month begins. So far, she’s doing great — and she’s proud of herself!

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Hey hey Mighties! It's that time of the week again! Tell me three things you're thankful for in the comments 👇
P.S.- for an extra challenge, see if you can list some "small things".
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Budgeting can be tricky and overwhelming sometimes, especially when you want to set better boundaries and make smarter financial choices. We all have some experience in that area, so no worries — budgeting is one of those things that takes practice!

If you could give someone advice who wants to set better financial boundaries either with themselves or someone else (that latter category is especially tricky), what would it be?

Mighty staffer @sparklywartanks says that setting separate budgets for bills, household items, and personal items/activities helps her to manage her spending the best. Knowing what’s a fixed expense allows her to see in what areas she has more freedom to spend on!

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You won't always feel this stuck. Even if you can't believe it, nothing is permanent. Hang on.
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Today I am focusing on staying warm

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