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× " So I Have Been Working Alot Lately... And Now I'm Strarting To Feel Like I'm Slipping Again... People At My Job. Don't Like Taking Out The Trash... Or Getting Thing's For Themselve's. My Boss Relie's On Me Mainly Because Other Co-worker's Are Old. I Get That Be I Broke Yesterday And Snapped At A Co-worker. People Telling Me To Do All Sort's. Of Thing's That They Can Do Too. I Was Already Doing Stuff...And Got Pulled Off The Tortilla's... All Because The Younger Boss Didn't Want To Take Out The Trash.. And Was Busy Talking With Another Co-worker. While Alot Of Customer's Were Waiting. I'm On The Night Shift. Today × Tomorrow. Let's See If My Night's Are Less Stressful. I Don't Need Other Co-worker's Ordering Me Around I Don't Work For Them. × Sincerely , × ☆ S. K. ☆

I been thinking of moving out from home. I finally have a car and become full time at work. I'm wanting to be more independent and move out. But this topic is not something that happens much in Hispanic culture. Idk how to approach my family on wanting to live on my own. BTW I'm almost in my 30s. It makes me anxious just thinking to approach them. I've discussed a topic before to move out and was told I wasnt ready. My anxiety has increased and been unable to sleep because of what if convos in ny head. #anyadvice

I’m a bit nervous about starting it but medicine isn’t doing me much good...

Hey. This is my first time ever putting up a post about me let alone my mental health and hourly struggles. On top of having a traumatic childhood and being abandoned with abuse and losing my Mum at 15. I fell in love in my late 30’s
Unfortunately, he died 3 months ago in front of me of a suspected overdose however 16 minutes of CPR I did could not revive him. I’ve been by myself since and his and my and his family/friends have pretty much abandoned me. What word would describe how I’m feeling?
Abandoned again, can anyone relate? I want to understand how much a good person can endure x

I'm trying to be okay with gaining weight. People will like me better if I gain weight, but I like myself thin. I have bulimia so it's really really hard. I've close to ruined my teeth, I might have to get a second root canal on my other front tooth.
#Bulimia #struggles #helpme #anyadvice ?

So I forgot to put in my two weeks notice last week and I might of screwed up. I’m moving to another area of my town and there is no way I could get to work in long distance. I don’t have a car which makes things more complicated. Instead of quitting I decided to text my manager on Thursday to ask how to apply for a transfer to another store instead. (I couldn’t talk to her in person because she works during the day and I work at night.) However she still hasn’t responded at all(it’s been 3 days). Then that’s when I realized I should of asked her last week. I was so caught up in trying to do other things that I forgot. During the day I’ve been busy, since my relatives and I are moving. And I’m getting more tempted write a letter of my notice because feel like I have no choice, cause I might be leaving earlier than I thought. But I’m worried this will make things worse. I don’t want to leave the company on a bad note but I might need to if there is no other option. I couldn’t sleep last night. I’m so stressed out and I’m not sure what to do. Any advice? #Stress #anxiousthoughts #badsleep #Insomnia

I keep hearing about ways and signs you can know a Fibro flare-up is coming but I haven't had any lists or examples to see if I can figure out what can warn me as well. What are the ways your body lets you know you are about to have a Fibro flare-up? And what are you flare-ups like?

#lost #newatthis #Fibromyalgia #anyadvice ?

In my family, I have always been known as the one with pain and health struggles. Surgeries, physical therapy, pain without any relief let alone cure: that is me.
And then I was diagnosed with #EhlersDanlosSyndrome and since it is hereditary my mom started seeing all these things my brother had. But of course he is faking it when she is around. When it is me and him he is fine. Until last week. After a month of her telling him how fragile he is and how everything hurts and 'poor baby' he has taken it to heart because he knows he can squeeze more out of her that way. I have never used my pain to get something unless I absolutely needed it but he, of course, doesn't see things that way. She wants to get him diagnosed with all of these things and despite having so many more syndromes and diagnoses and actual life-altering pain to where I cannot go a second without pain, I find myself being thrown under the bus and all of my struggles being ignores. I feel like it is a no-longer-the-only-child syndrome and though in my head I know it is silly of me to want to be at the forefront, I still really crave credit for all of the pain I have gone through and still go through whereas he just 'suddenly' decides he has pain and is getting tons of leeway that I never got.
He has had years to learn how to fake pain from me and though I at first worried about his future, I am past caring with his belittling of me and my legitimate aches, pains, dislocations, and constant struggles.
How can I cope with this?
#help #anyadvice ? #Fibromyalgia #ChronicFatigueSyndrome #Arthritis #AmplifiedMusculoskeletalPainSyndrome #HypothyroidismUnderactiveThyroidDisease #Insomnia #CheckInWithMe

I can slowly see my mother talking my brother into thinking that he has all these aches and pains like me when he has previously faked them to get her attention. He seems to enjoy doctors appointments and being taken around, treated as being fragile. I am so worried that he will let my moms worries define him. I know she worries that he will have the same extreme health problems as me but she refuses to think that his are minimal and don't effect him day by day. She doesn't see how he runs and plays but fakes pain when she steps in the room.
He hasn't been officially diagnosed with anything but still she tells him he has what I have. Not only does it hurt me and make me feel like my pain is being belittled, but I am also extremely concerned that there will be no going back. He has a tendency to let things he things take over and become real.
Is there anything I can do? Or will I just have to watch this play out?

#EhlersDanlosSyndrome #Fibromyalgia #musculoskeletalamplifiedpainsyndrome #Arthritis #anyadvice ?