I need advice. My gut is telling me to leave
My fiancé and I have been together a bit over a year now. He has had a hard time keeping jobs. His last one fired him. The job he had before that he had issues with some of the employees and was bullied to the point where he was having anxiety attacks thinking about going to work. The job he just lost this month was due to lack of ability to work with others. I've just never seen someone have such a problem keeping a job. It makes me worry that this is going to be a common thing with him. He's applied at numerous places but keeps getting turned down. He's at the point where he wants to apply for unemployment and disability and not work. Is it rude of me wanting to leave? I have been living paycheck to paycheck myself but just got a better job in February and finally making better money and was getting ready to pay off some debts and start a savings account until he lost his job. Now I'm left paying for everything. I can't do it. I don't make enough for the both of us. I love him but all I see is this continuing problem in the future and that frightens me. I saw my mom go through it with my dad. Also, we have been having other problems as well. There has been moments of verbal abuse. He has a hard time controlling his temper when he is angry and tends to yell and scream and break things. It's reminding me of the way I was verbally abused in my last relationship. He has been working on this but I still fear for the next time he has one of his freak outs. I have fibromyalgia, anxiety, and depression and I've noticed my anxiety and pain has been getting worse. I'm getting. Real tired.
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