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Vulnerability Is My Superpower
"Vulnerability isn't where we break; it's where we begin to heal, connect, and truly live."
For years, I equated vulnerability with weakness. It was the crack in the armor, the soft spot predators could exploit. My life was a relentless performance of strength—smiling through pain, excelling at work while battling inner chaos, and keeping my struggles locked away where no one could see them. I thought this was the only way to survive. But the truth? The armor wasn’t protecting me; it was suffocating me.
Vulnerability, as it turns out, isn’t the enemy. It’s the superpower I never knew I had.
The Weight of the Mask
I lived most of my life wearing masks—each one carefully constructed to fit the expectations of those around me. At work, I was the confident professional. At home, I was the dependable partner and father. In social circles, I was the one who had it all together.
But behind those masks, I was unraveling. Anxiety whispered lies into my ear: Don’t let them see the cracks. Depression held me captive, convincing me I was too broken to be loved. And the effort to maintain the facade drained what little energy I had left.
Eventually, the mask began to crack. I couldn’t keep up the charade, and the fear of being “found out” became unbearable.
My First Act of Vulnerability
The moment that changed everything wasn’t dramatic. There was no grand confession or tearful breakdown in front of an audience. It was a quiet conversation with my wife, Kristin.
One night, as we sat on the couch, she asked me the simplest question: “How are you, really?” I wanted to brush it off, to say, “I’m fine,” like I always did. But something about the way she asked—gentle, patient, and genuinely curious—made the words stick in my throat.
So instead of dodging the question, I told the truth. “I’m not okay.”
Her response wasn’t pity or judgment. It was understanding. In that moment, I realized that vulnerability wasn’t the end of the world—it was the beginning of connection.
The Strength in Vulnerability
Society often glorifies resilience, grit, and stoicism as markers of strength. And while those qualities have their place, they’re not the whole story. True strength, I’ve learned, is being brave enough to say, “I’m struggling.” It’s allowing others to see the parts of you that aren’t polished or perfect.
Vulnerability isn’t about oversharing or seeking attention. It’s about authenticity. It’s about standing in your truth, no matter how uncomfortable it feels, and trusting that the right people will accept you for who you are.
The Ripple Effect
Opening up didn’t just change my relationship with Kristin—it changed my relationship with the world. As I began sharing my struggles more openly, I noticed something remarkable: people leaned in.
Friends who had always seemed to have it all together began sharing their own struggles. Strangers messaged me after reading my posts, thanking me for putting into words what they had been too afraid to say. Vulnerability became a bridge, connecting me to others in ways I never thought possible.
But the most profound change was internal. For the first time in my life, I felt free. Free from the need to perform. Free from the fear of being “found out.” Free to just be me.
Why Vulnerability Matters
We live in a world that values perfection, yet perfection is an illusion. Everyone is carrying something—grief, anxiety, shame, fear. By choosing vulnerability, we give others permission to do the same.
When I share my story, I’m not just releasing my own burdens. I’m creating a space where others feel safe to release theirs. That’s the power of vulnerability.
A Message to You
If you’re reading this and wondering whether it’s safe to let your guard down, here’s what I’ll say: Start small. Share with someone you trust. Test the waters. You might be surprised at how people respond—not with rejection, but with compassion.
Vulnerability isn’t a weakness. It’s a superpower. It’s the thing that turns pain into connection, fear into courage, and isolation into community.
And you? You have that superpower, too.
Reflection
“Vulnerability isn’t the crack in the armor—it’s the light that shines through, illuminating who we truly are.”
“True strength isn’t about never falling. It’s about having the courage to rise again, and the vulnerability to ask for a hand when you need it.”
Corey Welch
Author | Mental Health Advocate | Champion of Vulnerability
"True strength begins where vulnerability opens the door."
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