The day before my college graduation my father threw my things onto our yard telling me I am a raging bitch that causes all of our family problems.
To put into context: two days before my graduation my mother (who is extremely abusive emotionally and controlling) tried to tell me who was going to be going to my graduation though I’d expressed who I wanted there. She wanted her mother there. Her mother and I had almost no relationship for over 18 years of my life. I told my dad I do not want her there I wanted my Nana who has truly been more of a parent and role model to me than either of my parents combined.
For expressing I wanted my Nana there I was then told I am causing drama, but shouldn’t I be able to vocalize my wishes? For my college graduation? Apparently not.
I’d decided to get a storage unit to be independent and not have to store anything at my parents house because they truly have led me to hate them. I went to pack my things and my dad was working from home. He yelled at me to come to his office. I said “no”. He then followed me out of the house to my car and told me “I’ve held my tongue long enough you are a raging bitch who causes all of the problems in our family. If we are such terrible parents get the fuck out of my house”. He then proceeded to throw everything I own and have bought for myself with money I have earned into the front yard of our house. Our new neighbors I’m sure think we are insane. Oh I forgot to mention I also have bruises on my arms from him grabbing me. I have fibromyalgia, Ehlers Danlos, and POTS. All of which make me suffer from chronic pain everyday. He forced me to move couches, a queen sized mattress and a 300 lb piece of furniture.
In his rage he also told me to give him my car keys because the car is in his name. I paid $5,000 of the car by the way. He also told me to give him my HSA card which is how I get medicine and go to the doctor.
Happy graduation to me I guess.
He then talked to my Nana (his mom) who gave him a reality check.
He then did a 360 and expected me to want to hangout with him that day. Welcome to my life where I am always always the problem no matter what I do. #Abuse #exhausted #breakingpoint #Anxiety #Depression #Overit