Welcome to my page! About me:
I’ve spent most of my life surviving things people couldn’t see.
Autism. OCD. Bipolar disorder. Dissociation. Panic. Grief. Exhaustion.
Things that don’t show up on scans, or fit neatly into one diagnosis code on the first try.
I wasn’t made for the systems I’ve been pushed through — and honestly, neither were most of us.
I’m writing this blog because I’m tired of having to explain my existence to people who only listen with a clipboard.
I’m writing it because other people like me — people who are neurodivergent, disabled, mentally ill, or just deeply sensitive — deserve to see themselves reflected somewhere.
This is going to be messy, personal, maybe a little angry, and definitely honest.
I want to talk about misdiagnosis. About shame. About masking. About how hard it is to just exist in a world not built for us.
Some days this space will be heavy. Some days it’ll be hopeful, or funny. Some days it’ll be a mix. And if that’s something you need — even just a little — then I’m really glad you’re here.
Welcome to Unfit by Design.
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