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Hi, my name is Lynor. I'm here because I've lived with anxiety for a long time and have recently been diagnosed with post viral fatigue syndrome. I'm looking to learn more about living with chronic fatigue and find ways to get closer to my previous normal energy levels.

#MightyTogether #Anxiety

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It takes me days after an appointment to be rested up especially with my chronic fatigue.

After a few months of appointments I quickly reach the point where I am so sick of them and I stop wanting to even answer my phone let alone go to appointments and go through the hoops of anything and everything medical. A short lifetime of constant appointments at least weekly since I was 13 and now being 29 I Have to plan rewards after my appointments or I don't even want to go in the waiting rooms. Now that I am older I purposely take weeks off of appointments though I prefer months off not that I ever get a full month off *sigh*

Anyone else get sick of appointments too?

If I have an appointment with a terrible doctor( even a lifetime of Dr appointments and I have only had 10 good ones from cardiologists to pain doctors to primary care physicians) my quota reaches my limit super fast. My psychosis was started and keeps happening with anything to do with bad doctors.

It is based on feeling I have no control in my life and rarely ever have. Being unable to live on my own, have a job, or even drive has significantly worsened my psychosis.

Though I have found that doing artistic things helps me feel more in control and makes me happy yo be who I am.

Oh how little health people know about the lives we live!

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Coping with Anxiety by Addressing Underlying Trauma

Anxiety is a common mental health condition that can stem from a variety of things. However, one of the reasons many people struggle so much with anxiety is due to the impact of underlying trauma — especially when that trauma goes unaddressed.

Traumatic events — no matter how long ago they occurred — can leave a mark on your mental well-being. Understanding the relationship between anxiety and underlying trauma can be the first step forward as you address the experiences you’ve been through.

It's important to note that while it's possible to cope with anxiety as you work through traumatic experiences, without actually addressing the trauma, the overall anxiety only tends to grow.

The Lasting Impact of Trauma

A traumatic experience might be a one-time thing, or it might be something more consistent and ongoing, like abuse or neglect, or relational experiences such as bullying or otherwise. Whatever the case may be, any kind of traumatic event can leave a lasting impact on your life, if not addressed.

Even if the trauma occurred when you were a child, you could still struggle with some of these effects as an adult without really realizing it -- at least at first. Some of these common lasting impacts include:

Feeling guilt or shame

Mood swings

Aches and pains in the body (headaches, back pain, digestive issues)

Chronic fatigue

Trust issues

Flashbacks

Social withdrawal

Panic attacks

Difficulty with intimacy

And others

It’s also not uncommon for people who have experienced trauma to deal with mental health issues like depression or anxiety. Anxiety, in particular, can make you feel like you’re in a constant state of fear or activation. Your mind and body may feel like they’re in “fight, flight, or freeze” mode, even when there is no present threat.

Coping With Triggers

One of the reasons anxiety can be so problematic when you’re dealing with underlying trauma is that you may likely experience underlying triggers. A trigger could be a person, place, thing, situation, tone, scent, or even a random memory or flashback that pops up.

These trauma triggers can make you feel like you’re right back in a dangerous situation. You may consciously be aware you're not in a dangerous situation, but your body is responding as if you are. They send signals to your brain that make you think you’re in danger, even when you’re not. Because anxiety often thrives on a fear of the unknown, it makes sense that these triggers would cause your thoughts or body experiences to become overstimulating and overwhelming.

Acknowledging Your Trauma

Recognizing your triggers can be a positive step forward. Even simply starting to pay attention to why certain things make you so anxious. For example, are you dealing with flashbacks or memories you don’t fully understand?

Some people try to avoid thinking about the trauma they’ve experienced. Others repress it so much that they consciously forget all about it. However, no matter how deeply it's pushed down (and often even more so because it's pushed so deep), one can still have symptoms years later.

Working with a therapist is often the best way to address underlying trauma. The process can help clear away the weeds while allowing you to process the experiences you've been through in a safe, healthy, and supportive environment.

Managing Anxiety

While addressing underlying trauma is a good way to better understand and reduce your anxiety, being able to cope with your symptoms can also make you feel more in control and make life more enjoyable while in the process.

Emotional regulation and mindfulness can be helpful as you address the deeper issues. As mentioned earlier, however, it's important to keep in mind that unaddressed and unprocessed trauma and anxiety has a way of building and growing. This can lead to the symptoms eventually pushing through the coping skills. Think of it as the coping skills are the bandaids and the deeper work cleans the wound. If you're not doing the work of cleaning the wound, eventually the bandaid won't do much.

If you’re concerned that you might be carrying underlying trauma, don’t hesitate to reach out for help. The anxiety that often stems from trauma doesn’t have to dictate your life. 

#Anxiety #Trauma #MentalHealth #PanicDisorder #PanicAttack

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Loss of hearing with lupus SLE #Lupus #Fibromyalgia #ChronicFatigue #ChronicPain #HearingLoss #Tinnitus

I live with lupus and fibro and all the things that come with it. My life seems relatively "normal" although my mobility is 👇👇. Do you know that lupus can affect your hearing?? I researched and was shocked to find out it is true. I have had episodes of tinnitus and dealt with it by soft music.

I was recently diagnosed with severe hearing loss on my right side and mild loss on my left. Initially I thought it was tinnitus or wax. This was not the problem. Imagine my shock having to be fit with hearing aids; although I just shrugged and plodded along.

Have your hearing checked. This should be as compulsory as the eye checks if you use hydroxychloroquin.

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Affirmations for Depression

Did you know that affirmations work by rewiring negative thought patterns and shifting mindset?
I've always had a hard time with negative thoughts, and mantras and affirmations really help me!
Try saying one or two of these every day for a week and let me know how it works!
#PTSD
#MentalHealth
#BorderlinePersonalityDisorder
#BipolarDisorder
#Anxiety
#Depression
#ChronicFatigue

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Not one more QOL ruining thing, please!

I have been dealing with some new loss of balance and muscle weakness symptoms recently. The neurologist is concerned. My partner thinks it's stress. But right now, all I can think about are my 17 existing diagnoses, all of which impact quality of life, none of which impact length of life. I'm not sure I can handle one more diagnosis like that. #AutismSpectrumDisorder #ADHD #PTSD #ChronicFatigue #Fibromyalgia #GenderDysphoria #Arthritis #Diabetes #CeliacDisease just to name a few

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Suggestions please 🙂

My daughter is using Seroquel for her Bipolar 2, but the higher the dose goes, the more negative side effects she is experiencing and the more horrible she physically feels. Her psychiatrist seems to have total faith in its ability to address her Bipolar and severe depression and anxiety despite our insistence that it may not be the best medication for her. Does anyone else have any medication suggestions for treating bipolar 2 other than the Seroquel? # #Bipolar2 #ChronicFatigue #Fibromyalgia #EhlersDanlosSyndrome #Depression #Anxiety #HypothyroidismUnderactiveThyroidDisease #UlcerativeColitis #EoE

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Never saw that coming

I did a thing. I did some research over the last couple weeks on psychologist in my local area.

As you can tell I have been struggling mentally and am a bubble of coffee about to over flow my mug. Yes I said coffee because that is about the only thing that is keeping me up right at the moment .

20 -30 minutes of deep sleep a night and little rem is not doing me any favors.

I found one I almost cancelled at the last second but took a gamble and called her up she reminded me so much of my step mama and took me back to days or nights sitting on the kitchen floor as I talked to her while she did her hair or what not. She got me in the next day.

I advocate for mental health and getting the correct treatment weather medication or talking to someone. Or both. I am not so great and following my own words when it comes to self help.

I’m better at taking care of others than I am at taking care of myself .

My middle school counselor was someone I truly opened up too. Saw him for a couple years and then he passed from cancel. Sense then I have not been able to get over the hurdle of seeing someone new.

Well I took the first step and I think I’m going go take another. Next appointment in two weeks and giving EMDR a try. This should be interesting. I came out of the womb stressed

#MixedConnectiveTissueDiseaseMCTD #MentalHealth #RaynaudsPhenomenon #RheumatoidArthritis #AutonomicDysfunction #Anxiety #ChronicFatigue #Depression

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