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living lessons: life with chronic illness (lesson #1 )

hi fellow mighties. this is my first post in a new series i created based on my experiences, both life-giving and life-draining, since being struck by a debilitating disease 2 ½ years ago. i’m quite far from being an expert on chronic illness (is anybody ever?) but my life will forever be altered into before and after. let’s just say i am certainly still figuring out after. in the meantime, i hope any sentiments i can share offer some support and solace to others walking the same path. sometimes it just helps to know you’re not alone. sometimes it just helps to know there are others in the same situation who have learned not just to survive but thrive. and sometimes, just sometimes, we can find helping hearts along the way who are willing to weave some love and light into our lives if we find the courage and vulnerability to let them in. feel free to share this with someone who needs to hear it

#ChronicIllness #MyalgicEncephalomyelitis #Depression #Anxiety #ChronicFatigue #IfYouFeelHopeless #Grief #MentalHealth #ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorder #ChronicPain #Undiagnosed

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Living With Chronic Pain and No Diagnosis: The Loneliest Kind of Illness # Invisible Illness # Medical Gaslighting #Undiagnosed

I’m 47 and have been living with chronic pain and profound fatigue for years now. I rely on a wheelchair for things like shopping or walking the dog. I can’t stand for long or walk very far. Everyday things—things I used to take for granted—are now major obstacles.

Despite countless tests, appointments, and even private consultations, I still don’t have a clear diagnosis. Most recently, a private doctor suggested possible hEDS (hypermobile Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome) or POTS (Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome), but also said that “even if it is one of those, there’s not much we can do.” He encouraged me to just accept things.

But I can’t accept the idea that I’m just stuck like this without even a name for what I’m going through.

I’ve heard “medically unexplained symptoms” more times than I can count—and every time, no matter how gently it’s said, it feels like I’m being dismissed. Like I’m too complicated, too messy, too inconvenient. Like my pain is a mystery no one wants to solve.

And the thing is, I do have documented conditions: a hypermobile coccyx, Bertolotti’s syndrome, stage 4 endometriosis, scoliosis, and spinal nerve compression that required surgery. These aren’t theoretical. They’re real. They’re in my records and in my body. I understand how central sensitization and the nervous system can amplify pain—but I also know what’s happening to me is not just in my head.

I work, and I fight to keep working, because it gives me structure and identity. But the effort it takes is immense. I use pain relief sparingly so I can’t be told I’m psychologically dependent on it—if anything, I avoid it unless absolutely necessary. Yet when pain relief is discouraged without alternatives, it feels like I’m being asked to endure without tools or support.

What I want—what so many of us want—is not a cure. It’s a name. Something that says: Yes, you are seen. You are believed. What’s happening to you is real. A name opens doors. A name brings access. A name brings peace.

If you’ve ever felt dismissed or invisible because your symptoms didn’t come with a neat label, I want you to know—you’re not alone. I see you. And I’d love to hear from others who are walking this same uncertain, exhausting road.

Thank you for reading.

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1 week later

Hello everyone, it’s been a week and I thought I’d give a little update on how things are going.

I had a busy work week so I didn’t do much of anything not work related until I got off.

Health wise, I don’t know how to put into words how I feel. Wether to be optimistic and cheerful or to let myself be more myself with my emotions.

I’ve been monitoring my blood pressure as I was instructed, still low 90% of the time. Especially in the morning. I’m dizzy all the time as well, especially when standing for prolonged periods and when I’ve just gotten up. My BP cuff reports my heartbeat rate as well which is often in the 50-60’s range despite having times where I’d feel like my heart was racing even without feeling anxious or doing any activity.

My chest feels tight, filled with discomfort and even pain. I’ve had times where I’d be completely relaxed but feel shortness of breath. Persistent and for long periods of time.

Today it felt like the pain in my chest radiated to my inner upper arms.

It feels awful.

I am still working my job, I want to keep working but I’m a little concerned about the safety aspect of my work.

I’m not terribly concerned about it but any advice would be helpful.

#Undiagnosed

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Hello

Hello, my name is Angel. I’m a young adult woman who has been diagnosed with several conditions but currently I have noticed, and professionals, that my Blood Pressure levels are too low more often than they should be. There is a trend to this I have unintentionally noticed, every time I get up after sitting or laying down my BP dips very low and I will get very lightheaded. I’ve had this experience going back to childhood but never knew about the decrease in BP. I was told about a condition called Orthostatic Hypotension but I’ve never looked into it much myself. I don’t think it’s that serious for me, but some tell me to take it more seriously than I do as when I say I just ignore the lightheadedness, they get concerned. Is there anything Is should be doing differently? I’m not sure what to do.
#MightyTogether #Undiagnosed #OrthostaticHypotension

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When do you stop looking?

I've been chronically ill most of my life. And I've tried A LOT of different things to help or find answers.

But I'm tired.

Worn out.

Exhausted.

Grieved.

I wonder if it's time to stop working so hard to eke out a possibility of feeling better, and just let things be as they are. Live as I am, and let it be enough.

But I'm scared that that's giving up.

Or...is it giving in? Surrendering my denial that this is how it is?

I'd love to know what my Mighty family thinks of this.

#ChronicPain
#Anxiety
#MentalHealth
#DiabetesType1
#ADHD
#PolycysticOvarySyndrome
#Fibromyalgia
#GastroesophagealRefluxDisease
#MTHFRMutation
#Undiagnosed
#Grief
#MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
#AdrenalInsufficiency

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I’m new here!

Hi, my name is lavenderbubbles I'm here looking for more support and connections from people who go through the same as me. I feel very tired, isolated and hopeless sometimes, so I hope this place can alleviate a few of these feelings.

#MightyTogether #AutismSpectrumDisorder #Arrhythmia #Dysautonomia #Asthma #HypermobilitySyndrome #GlossopharyngealNeuralgia #Migraine #ChronicPain #Undiagnosed

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Anyone followed this course - Does it Work?

Yesterday a friend recommended this course to me - she insists it holistic and new. I will follow this weekend and hopefully its helpful to others as well - still free - www.udemy.com/course/new-science-holistic-wellness-solution-... #Holistic #Pain #Undiagnosed #FunctionalNeurologicalDisorder #AutismSpectrumDisorder #MentalHealth #mighty

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Life update

Hey I know it’s been a while since I posted. A lot had happened so far and I’m scared and I just need people to talk to who get it.

First thing is first I am no longer on college campus. I went to college for the first couple of days I pushed myself and I ended up having my paralysis and muscle weakness episodes so I couldn’t even attend class. I’ve been at home ever since getting my bachelors with GCU online. We still don’t have an answer for the episodes

Because I couldn’t be in college campus anymore I now go to doctors appointments in New York that my auntie takes me to do we can look for an answer. I’ve seen a nurse practitioner in neurology and I got a MRI to look st the structure of my brain and a EEG to look for seizures both came out normal. I’ve also seen a cardiologist who tested me with a heart monitor which came out normal. I am waiting for an appointment with the neurologist but we keep having set backs. But I am getting somewhere and they have all been lovely and I’m more than greatful for my auntie.

As I’ve been home I’ve also been continuing with therapy online. Apparently when I was getting tested for Autism they also tested for OCD and I score really high. High enough for a potential diagnosis but they never diagnosed me. My therapist thinks I have OCD not only because of my results but because of my mental health struggles I tell her about.

I am currently considering medication for OCD since nothing I’ve been doing has been helping and my therapist thinks it’s the best option. But I’m scared if getting medication for OCD and having a OCD diagnosis will prevent me from getting physical help. My therapist and other doctors I’ve seen lately don’t think my episodes are a mental problem but I’m scared if the doctors in New York might think so.

I know this is a lot and thank you so much for reading this if you did. If you’re able to answer this: do you think I should be worried about getting an OCD diagnosis because if the doctors will dismiss me? If so what should I do? Thank you so much

#OCD #Undiagnosed #MentalHealth #LifeUpdate

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I’m new here

I’m undiagnosed, but have elevated liver enzymes. I’ve been dealing with a lot of pain in my upper abdomen that feels like my organs are just so distended, it’s an unbearable sensation that I’ve never felt anything like. It often radiates to my shoulder or back. I also have unexplained weight loss, nausea, loss of appetite and fatigue. I’ve already been through lots of tests for things like viral hepatitis, CMV, mono and nothing has come up. I feel like I can’t do this any longer, all I want is to just feel better.
#ChronicPain #Undiagnosed #AutoimmuneHepatitis

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