Here's what it was like
Maturing (at least somewhat) as a mother of children who turned out to have some disabilities, I grew along with my children, and like almost all parents, I turned to “the experts” when I needed help with day to day life with my kids. Who doesn’t ask the experts? I found out in 2002 that our oldest son had Asperger’s syndrome, which is what would now be referred to as Level 1 autism spectrum disorder. I realized fairly quickly that I too had Asperger’s that had been missed, since in the 1970s and 80s nobody was looking for female children with autism because they were supposed to not exist.
As time passed, all my children were diagnosed with learning disabilities, and more were diagnosed with autism, in addition to mental health issues. These diagnoses led to participation in therapy, medication checks, social skills groups, occupational therapy, cranialsacral therapy and chiropractic care. Later, trials of ADD medication. The younger two also had multiple X-rays for supposed scoliosis. In the midst of these activities, we did actually have a life. I’m so glad we were able to homeschool!
In short, there were many challenges my children experienced that I did my best to help them with. Over time, with three children, I believe I am counting accurately when I state that in total they went through ten psychological and educational evaluations. Each of these found something that was causing problems.
Evaluations usually include the tests that were used, what the results mean, and the recommendations the clinician has for your child. Most of the time in the report, there is much information to take in. Recommendations often include more than one type of therapy, be it physical, speech, mental or occupational, socializing recommendations, a referral to a child psychiatrist for medication, and probably other guidance that you, as the parent, are supposed to follow. After all, you have just asked the expert! It would be a waste of time and money to not put the recommendations into action, right?
The message most parents get is that they should probably—just—panic.