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I had a crush on this guy who lives next door at my apartment. When I moved in he said to let him know if I wanted to hang out because he likes to play piano and I play flute. I’m new to the area and I was wanting more friends so I reached out to him. We started texting, but his texts started to make me feel uncomfortable. He just seems to want something too fast. It’s not just that he seems to want something more from me, the manner of his texts are making me feel uncomfortable. I think he knows I had a crush on him and I don’t want him taking advantage of that.

I don’t have a crush on him anymore as a result, but I’m so anxious when I see him that I’m afraid that might be misconstrued as being nervous bc I like him. I don’t want him to think I have a sexual interest in him when I dont, I never did, I’m demisexual (I don’t have sexual attraction before a romantic relationship). Reaching out to him has made me feel like I’m in over my head.

What do you do when the other person thinks you have a crush on them but you don’t anymore bc they’re making you feel uncomfortable?

(Please no ace-phobia in the comments! I’m trusting you! If you have opinions about it, please just answer the question instead. Please be kind ❤️)

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I've been questioning my sexuality for about one year. I think I'm bisexual and demisexual, but I'm not sure yet. I won't have peace until I be sure of what I am. So, if someone has any ideas of what should I do to discover it, I'll be very grateful. I think I already answered all of the "am I gay" tests on internet, and they didn't help 😂

I am tired of not feeling seen, of my truth being assumed and taken for granted.

I am #Bisexual #demisexual #genderfluid — I present as female and I’m married to a man, my lifelong best friend and ally.

I feel like I’m invisible to the #LGBTQIA + community because I married a man and pass for cisgender. I’m tired of feeling like I’m privileged and don’t understand what it means to be queer. I’m tired of feeling like I’m not a welcome part of the community. I can go to a bar or a club with him and people eye me suspiciously like I’m some kind of tourist. I feel like maybe that’s right, like I’m only “part-queer,” or something, so I’m nervous going out in my masculine clothes or talking about my experiences with women or what I find attractive in women or whatever.

My husband’s family is conservative, so I’m not officially out with them, and I’m tired of hearing homophobic jargon with the presumption that it’s fine, they’re not talking about me— because they are. At the same time I don’t want to face a falling out with his parents; I want to be allowed to be myself.

I feel like I’m often treated like an outsider by the group I identify with most and I can’t be myself with his family. I just want to be allowed to feel at home with my own identity. I don’t know if it’s me or the world who’s causing the struggle. I don’t know how to settle into myself.

I suppose I’m mostly looking to be seen and heard and understood the way I am, but also seeking any support, advice, or guidance others may have. I’m also really nervous talking about all of this. I know I have some social anxiety, and I was bullied for my queerness as a kid.