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One Word That Describes Me: Compassionate

If I had to choose one word that truly defines me, it would be compassionate. I feel deeply for those I love, and I genuinely care about how others are feeling. I sometimes joke that I can’t stand people. However, the truth is I want everyone to be okay. I want them to thrive in their lives. My heart is constantly open to the emotions of others. I take on their joys and their struggles as if they were my own.

One of the things I am most passionate about is animal welfare. I have an enormous soft spot for animals, and nothing breaks my heart more than seeing them suffer. I honestly can’t watch movies or TV shows where an animal is harmed—even if I know it’s not real. It’s too much for me to stomach, and I firmly believe there should be warnings for such scenes. It would save me a lot of unnecessary tears.

Another area that is incredibly important to me is mental health advocacy. Breaking the stigma surrounding mental health care is something I care deeply about. My own journey with mental health has been a long one, filled with denial, confusion, and ultimately, clarity. At first, I struggled to accept my diagnosis, but over time, I found relief and understanding. Now, I want to help others see that they are not alone. Seeking help is not a sign of weakness but of strength.

I feel everything so deeply, and my empathy often makes me feel like an emotional sponge. If I see someone hurting, I hurt. If I see someone happy, I feel joy with them. While this sensitivity can sometimes be overwhelming, I know that my compassion is one of my greatest strengths. It drives me to be there for others. It encourages me to advocate for change. I strive to create a world where kindness and understanding are at the forefront.

Being compassionate isn’t always easy, but I wouldn’t trade it for anything. It’s who I am, and it’s what makes me, me.

What's one word that describes you?

“Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.”

Leo Buscaglia

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Crying, I’m not sure I even have the words to explain. Something I have to do, work wise but it’s breaking my heart. Leaving a job that I’ve loved for 15 years, having to say goodbye to so many people who have put their trust and love into
Me. . And starting afresh in a job that I hope I can do, but my heart isn’t there.

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I had to quit because despite liking the job, the people brought out the worst in me. I encourage you to protect yourself from people like this, in my case they sap my energy, lower my self worth, make me doubt myself and not positive people to be around. Sometimes you just have to write people off to protect yourself. I suppose in my personal life people could say the same of me. I don't know. Arrrgh! Confusing to say the least. That's why I appreciate this site so much. It gives me the opportunity to vent and look at myself so that maybe I can gain some perspective.

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I got home to then have a phone call , for a once a month check in, from the mental health team. The woman was saying how bad my scores were, 70% chance of suicide, and when is the last time i self harmed. I told her it was Saturday. She abruptly said i shouldn't be cutting myself and i need to lock the knife away. I was crying and said i couldn't at this particular time, i told her mentally I had had a rough few weeks which I am still trying to come to terms with and understand, and today, with dad , just added to my failing to deal with my emotions. She told me things to try. Then she was gone. 15 minutes she was on the phone. She could tell i was upset but that didn't seem to make any difference to her. It left me feeling guilty that i should try harder, i do try but sometimes its so difficult...The way she spoke to me made me feel like I do not matter to anyone, even the health professionals. My two friends who helped me in the beginning have now become really distant. I can't manage all these mixed up feelings right now. Does anyone really care or do people just see me as a burden 😥
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