The anxious overthinkers are hard to fall inlove with
As someone who, reluctantly, identifies as an anxious over thinker I speak from experience. I am the first one to get scared when someone seems like they may show that they could potentially be interested.
I don’t take things at face value. I don’t think that a guy can just like me, there is always a motive. I can’t pick up on normal flirting signals, I can’t believe that someone just wants to spend time with me.
I push away, I use sarcasm and small little jabs as a repelant, keep everyone at arms length. I can’t accept that anyone actually likes the girl behind the attitude, the scars, the mouth and the always quick wit.
I know this comes from my own insecurity and anxiety and I hope that one day I can let someone in and accept that I am worth the love and attention. I’m still working on that one.