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A tale of self-acceptance in my journey here 😅:

It's just too hard... I mean, the world is cruel. Everyone is just so practical that expressing your genuine emotions is something so hated... Why would you do that... Why would you say so... Be practical and all.... If you show your emotions, you are weak... It’s almost like living a robotic life... You wake up and do your stuff and all.... It’s like you are just fulfilling your duties.... Or I would say, you are obligated to do so... And, the reasons... For your parents, for a secure future... That’s the purpose...

But, when the question shifts from why you are doing this.... You just simply don’t have a proper answer... Are you doing it for yourself.......

This is the vital question... Not gonna lie, before my depression journey began, I was exactly like that... Yeah, that's my own story...
I wasn’t living for myself... I was just pretending to be picture-perfect... Oh, I can't disappoint my parents, teachers, and everyone else....

The ideal robotic version.... I was pretending... I wasn’t like that... From my very childhood, I have been someone who was behind every mess... The menace... Yeah... Loud and vocal, who would laugh hysterically.... The loud one... Someone who always hated perfection... For me, perfection is just too much... If everyone becomes the same, what's the point... Someone has to be the odd one... That was my ideology of life.... A person with her own liberty.......

And then, everything went wrong.... I stopped being myself... I became what everyone wanted.... The pressure was so scary that even missing a one-mark question would make me cry for hours... Feeling guilty and calling my mother.... Well, I would share a story to explain how scary it was...
The toxic parenting.... Now, I can point it out: I was severely sick, so I missed three exams... Even in that condition, I sat for my physics exam and I scored 96 out of 100....
And, when I told my father, he said you need to get more.........

I was pleasing everyone except myself... I lost myself..... I wasn’t like that..... And, that's how the depression just went on.......
But, now, if you ask me, I would say I am doing it for myself... Just for myself... My interests... Something that would attract me......

So, I chose the subject I loved... I didn’t listen to anyone.... I prioritized myself... And, now I can say I am doing it all for myself...
And, I am not pretending... It’s just me... Who laughs randomly, who listens to her heart.... And, doing random things... I shake hands to understand things... I try to be physically present... I use the methods I prefer and I just really don’t care how it looks to others...
Well, at the same time, I know I can't bother anyone....

So, for me, as long as I am not bothering anyone, I just don't really care....
It’s not easy to say that... But, I am trying....
Because the judgments are brutal and I do struggle..... Well, I would still say, I will always choose myself........ Yeah...

And, that's how I realized that it’s actually me....... Authentically....
Someone who is odd but exceptional.........
And, I am proud to be the odd one... It’s like finding myself once again....

And, I am trying and I am really optimistic about it... Being able to share this here is like a blessing.... This is the place that gave me the liberty to be myself..... And, I am doing so....
And, I am just beyond grateful for everyone here ❤️......
#Depression #MentalHealth #Anxiety #CheckInWithMe #MightyTogether #self
acceptance #CheerMeOn

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Share your word for the weekend.

Hi Mighty friends! 👋

Last weekend was pretty tough for me. I had to fight my way out of a heavy depressive episode, so this weekend I want to set an intention that can help me feel more grounded and in control of my body and life's decisions. I think I want my word to be "centered." I want to feel connected to my physical and spiritual body.

What about you? What word can you carry with you into the weekend?

#BipolarDepression #BipolarDisorder #PTSD #ComplexPosttraumaticStressDisorder #Schizophrenia #ADHD #Parenting #ChronicIllness #SchizoaffectiveDisorder #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #Anxiety #ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorder #Depression #MentalHealth #Selfcare #EatingDisorders #CheckInWithMe #CheerMeOn

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Select all that apply
4 weeks left
My voice deserves to be heard.
I honor my feelings and intuition.
My pain doesn’t define who I am.
I choose to stay grounded in my resilience.
The mistakes I’ve made paved the path to self-awareness.
I believe in my strength to overcome.
I let go of the pressure to explain my boundaries.
I focus my energy on what I can do right now.
I trust my ability to do what’s right for me.
Other (share an affirmation you’re practicing below!) 📝
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🧡💙Raising Awareness of FND💙🧡

After taking some time off (as explained in earlier posts), I have been working on creating new images for future posts as I return to return to raising awareness of Functional Neurological Disorder (FND) and try to provide information, support and encouragement to people living with this debilitating condition.
#FunctionalNeurologicalDisorder #Disability #ChronicPain #ChronicIllness #MightyTogether #CheerMeOn #FND #FNDAwareness

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A habit I want to change is...

I've been reflecting lately on the goals and intentions I want to set for myself as the year continues. There have been a lot of shifts and changes in my daily routine since the beginning of the year, and as a result, some of my habits have had to change, too.

One habit I'd really like to improve is my time management. I want to use my time in a way that leaves me feeling less fatigued and less stressed about how little time I have for myself. I've realized that self-abandonment is a major trigger for my depression, so making space for my own needs has become increasingly important.

I also want to practice speaking to myself with more kindness about what I'm able to accomplish each week and how I define purpose in this season of my life. I'm not sure I'm where I want to be—or even if there's a specific place I need to "be" right now. Transition seasons often feel foggy and uncertain for me.

What about you? Is there a habit you'd like to change? What's one small step you can take toward that change?

#BipolarDepression #BipolarDisorder #PTSD #ComplexPosttraumaticStressDisorder #Schizophrenia #ADHD #Parenting #ChronicIllness #SchizoaffectiveDisorder #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #Anxiety #ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorder #Depression #MentalHealth #Selfcare #EatingDisorders #CheckInWithMe #CheerMeOn

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🤗I Rediscovered ‘Me’!🤗

As some of you may have noticed, I have been taking a break from The Mighty over the past few months. The reason for this was that, after years of living in a home that was entirely unsuitable, even dangerous, due to my health and mobility needs - which had triggered severe depression and anxiety - I was finally able to move into a home that is fully wheelchair adapted and beyond anything I could have imagined. As much as this move has changed my life in so many ways, it also revealed the full extent of my social anxiety and just how much depression and anxiety had affected me. I felt it was important for me to take some time to work on myself and it helped me to rediscovered someone I thought I wouldn’t see again – ME! I have rediscovered parts of myself that I thought were gone for good, and it has been wonderful. And what has been even more amazing is that rediscovering myself has led to me accepting myself for who I am, which in turn has helped me feel more accepted by others. 💪🏻🤗💝
#Selfcare #MentalHealth #Depression #Anxiety #SocialAnxiety #GeneralizedAnxietyDisorder #CheerMeOn #FunctionalNeurologicalDisorder #EhlersDanlosSyndrome #MightyTogether #ChronicIllness #ChronicPain #Disability #DepressiveDisorders

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How do you typically respond when someone asks, "How are you?"

For me, living with mental health conditions has been challenging in many ways. One of the more subtle—but surprisingly difficult—challenges has been answering the simple question, "How are you?"

Being part of different mental health communities has given me the courage to be more honest with myself and with others. At the same time, it's made it harder to give the automatic "I'm fine" response when that's not how I actually feel.

If I'm having a difficult day, I usually try to be honest about it. But I've learned that this approach can sometimes make others uncomfortable, especially if they don't understand that my mental health conditions are chronic. My symptoms aren't something that only show up during a crisis or after something traumatic—they're a regular part of my life.

There have even been times when I've distanced myself from people because I worried that my honesty about not feeling well over a long period of time would make them uncomfortable.

Can anyone else relate?

How do you usually respond when someone asks, "How are you?" Does that question ever feel uncomfortable for you? Has your answer changed over time?

#BipolarDepression #BipolarDisorder #PTSD #ComplexPosttraumaticStressDisorder #Schizophrenia #ADHD #Parenting #ChronicIllness #SchizoaffectiveDisorder #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #Anxiety #ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorder #Depression #MentalHealth #Selfcare #EatingDisorders #CheckInWithMe #CheerMeOn

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July 2026 Mood Tracking Recap and Reflection

It's the last day of July, Mighties! How was the month for you? Let’s check in and reflect on our mood-tracking experiences. 🌳

What were some trends or patterns you saw come up? Have you learned anything new, reassuring, or interesting about yourself in the process of mood tracking this month? Is there anything you would like to improve or work on moving forward?

💡 Bonus: Feel free to also comment the color(s) that best represents your mood today as well. 🎖️

💚 Green: Open-minded, creative, reflective
🔵 Blue: Calm, relaxed, confident
💜 Purple: Happy, excited, grateful
⬛ Black: Angry, annoyed, frustrated
🟧 Orange: Stressed, overwhelmed
🟫 Brown: Tired, exhausted, drained
🟨 Yellow: Depressed, stuck, melancholy
❤️ Red: Anxious, alert, concerned, worried
⚪ White: Not sure if I can put my mood into words.
🌈 Rainbow: Other (share in the comments!)

#MightyMoodTracking #CheckInWithMe #Selfcare #MentalHealth #ChronicIllness #ChronicPain #Disability #Autism #Fibromyalgia #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #Depression #Anxiety #BipolarDisorder #PTSD #ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorder #Migraine #MultipleSclerosis
#CheerMeOn

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Pick a notebook and answer the prompt that goes along with it in the comments below! 📚✏️

📒 Spiral notebook: Write a to-do list for today. What's at the top of your list?
📓 Composition notebook: A skill I want (or need) to learn is ___________.
📔 Journal notebook: What's a challenge you've been navigating lately?

I choose the journal notebook! 📔
A challenge I've been navigating is mentally preparing to adjust to a new therapist. Change can be hard for me, but I'm trying to be kinder to myself as I move through this transition.

Which notebook do you choose today? 💙

#MentalHealth #Journaling #Depression #Anxiety #CheckInWithMe #Fibromyalgia #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorder #PTSD #BipolarDisorder #Disability #ChronicPain #ChronicIllness #CheerMeOn #DistractMe #ThePencilCase

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Spouses and Partners Virtual Support Group! 4th Tuesday of the month, 5:30 to 7pm ET

Spouses and Partners is a NAMI Family Support Group for spouses and other romantic partners of people living with a mental health condition. This peer-run group offers support in a welcoming and inclusive environment. Share your experiences, build community and learn from others with similar challenges.

💻 If you'd like more information or would like to join, you can find the link here. Virtual groups are every 4th Tuesday, 5:30 to 7pm Eastern Standard Time. Closed captioning is available: naminycmetro.org/programs/spouses-and-partners

If you have any questions, feel free to comment below!

#BipolarDepression #BipolarDisorder #PTSD #ComplexPosttraumaticStressDisorder #Schizophrenia #ADHD #ChronicIllness #SchizoaffectiveDisorder #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #Anxiety #ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorder #Depression #MentalHealth #Selfcare #EatingDisorders #CheckInWithMe #CheerMeOn

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