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Reawaken Your Creativity #creativity #MentalHealth

Through some self-reflection something occurred to me. I miss doing and making things. Over the years I’ve learned carpentry, metal work, worked in heating and air conditioning, and electronics. Some of my past college courses included education classes for grade school children. I worked as a YMCA program director developing daily schedules for working with children. I developed activities for exercise, swimming, arts and crafts and more.
Those experiences were invaluable professionally and interpersonally.
Lately, in my daily walk with depression, anxiety, bipolar, adhd, ptsd something was missing. A friend recently retired as a police officer after 35 years. I wanted to recognize his accomplishments.
I then started exploring something to make for him. The answer came after digging into some projects. This led me to discover knife making. My friend enjoys the outdoors, fishing, camping, hunting. I also decided to embark upon leather craft. The intent is to make a sturdy leather sheath for this knife.
I still have some work to do on this. It’s not a job but a joy to work on a project for someone else. I do a little at a time and rest or wait for epoxy to dry and cure. But then I return to it.
If I may take a little time to explain all of us have friends, family that care about us. Friendships should be built on trust and appreciation. Turning our thoughts outside ourselves is a start. Devoting your hobby (ies) to make something for them shows a personal effort and talent that may be something your friend of family member did not know about you. It can be anything: macrame, quilting, calligraphy, a painting or drawing, a special photo you took. The choices are innumerable and unique to you. But it allows some bonding with loved ones. In our personal struggles isolation is counter productive. Sure it’s good to meditate or journal but retreating into our “cave” can become our habit or routine. Try to take in the bigger picture by utilizing your talents and creativity. Creativity excites the imagination. As we work to feel and do better realize you are special. Take an art class, or learn something new.
There is a bible scripture, “Iron sharpens iron.” Encouraging others is a way to make someone’s day better and it has the benefit knowing you made their day.
Find your creativity. Give yourself space to explore your imagination. You have talents.

#creativity #Talent #Hobby #Imagination #encourage #ADHD

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Be Brilliant Just Shine

#encourage #motivate #help #survive #live

So many have gone through what we are all going through. If we only knew how there are so few.

Yes you #TheFew that’s right you right now are The Few.

This message is for you we appreciate you!

We celibate you!

We are happy for the you that you are today!

Why ?

Because you will only be this you for this moment inside many other moments!

This is your moment to shine!

Yes you that’s right you!

See you have been through something, lived through something and survived through something!

That by the way is a Miracle!

That means you are a Miracle!

So look at yourself and tell yourself

(( You are a miracle ))

That’s right in the mirror 🪞 that is you!

Look what God has done ✅ in you!

You miracle that you are!

So we have a little game, a small challenge if you would like to join us please do!

Just wait

We have to explain IT

IT is simply IT

Definition of IT is what makes IT well IT…

Wince you know IT then you need to remember IT

Don’t forget IT

Are you ready for IT

Ok let’s get to IT

This is IT a simple equation that solves IT

Just Watch IT

A B C 1 2 3 = Free

So step one you

Step two a mirror

Now step three to be free

Quote “ say to you “ this is what you do

For real look at yourself in the mirror and do this over and over for like a few months even 8

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((;)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Remember

Please be safe be well be loved your worthy

Don’t forget IT

<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<¥>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

We know that you are

Do you know that you are

Matter

Choice

Existence

You matter

Your important

You are not alone

Please have a better day!

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Loneliness & Chronic Illness#LymeDisease #Fibromyalgia #ChronicIllness #Awareness #empower #encourage #inspire

Loneliness & Chronic Illness

I have been living with Fibromyalgia and Chronic Lyme Disease for almost 2 decades. Wow! I don’t think I’ve ever said it like that before. Let me try it again…for almost 20 years, a little less than half of my life, I’ve been sick! As you can imagine, with prolonged sickness comes frustration and if I’m honest, loneliness creeps in at times.

You see, while my husband is working and the kids are in school, I spend my day at home alone. Outside of the chats with my girlfriends and catching up with family, I’m usually home in bed or on the couch pondering what to do next. To be transparent, what I’m really pondering is what CAN I do today? You see most days I am not feeling well enough to do the things I used to do or really desire to due to the various symptoms I navigate on a daily basis. I wake up each morning not really knowing what to expect or how I am going to feel. How I long for the days when I could get up and do whatever I wanted to do that day. Insert loneliness.

I think what’s really taking place is I am grieving the way my life used to be and a good friend of mine helped me realize that I would never get that life back, nor should I strive to. You see, the old Windy didn’t know she was sick and was living a life that could not continue. The old Windy had not stepped into what God had for her in order to stretch her into what God is calling her to become. Whew…that’s hard to hear at times but it’s true. If I were to go back to the way things were in the past, I would be far from who I am called to be. Even though it’s hard most days and even though I am lonely at times, I would not trade it for anything if it means getting closer to who I am created to be.

So what do I do to all day? Well I’m glad you asked!

I take lots of naps! (Naps are the best and much needed to allow my body to heal itself)

Eat (Way too much)

Read my Bible (Food for the soul)

Pray (Talk to God about all the things)

Nap some more (Ha!)

Think about ways to help others (Giveback)

Laugh at myself (When I’m not crying. Laughter is good medicine)

Check on my family and friends (I love you all)

Doctors appointments (I love my doctors too)

Repeat

Oh, I’m sure I take another nap!!!!

It can be lonely living with chronic illness and I am so thankful for the people in my life (You know who you are)who help me keep my spirits up and push through and never give up. This too shall pass.

Thanks for all of your support. It means everything to me. Please be sure to check out my new podcast, “Windy’s Journey” which is now streaming on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and Google Podcasts.

Until next time, XO

Windy

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Am I a horrible person #Staying away #challengeincrowds #notinvolved

This is not a post about Covid. This is about finding family a challenge. Tonight my nephew got married. I find my sister in law’s family extremely unpleasant. But I put on my proverbial big girl pants and attended. My sister in laws mom complimented one of my daughters “she is so skinny” chubby sis was right there. The ceremony had more of a crowd than I can deal with so I stood in tbe back with my girls , another guests tells me if your girls can’t behave you shouldn’t have brought them (I said maybe if you don’t know how to behave maybe you shoulda stayed home. And on and on it went. We stayed for the ceremony, dinner and the first “dance” at 1145pm I had it and told my husband he is welcome to stay I’ll drive home but we all left now it’s 1am and I feel bad that I couldn’t force myself to stay any longer am I am awful self absorbed POS? #Chat #Support #encourage #SocialAnxiety #Family

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Lupus Healing

Healing from lupus isn’t linear. It will take you through many paths to get you to a place of some sort of comfort beyond lupus. #lupusincolor #EDUCATE #inspire #encourage #empower

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Lupus Holiday Recovery

The whirlwind of the holidays is finally over. Take some time to recover.

Lupus In Color Holiday Recovery:

1. Rest-Get some sleep: Make moments today to relax and just be. Your body needs it.
2. Make time to meditate: Take 5 minutes out of your day to just sit still and breathe. You deserve still moments to recharge.
https://3.Take a short walk: bundle up and take a short walk and enjoy the fresh air. The walk will help you relax some.
4. Write in your journal: Sit down and write out your feelings from the holiday. Get all the good and bad out of your mind and onto paper. It's a form of great release.
5. Set boundaries: just say no if you need to. Dont feel like you have to say yes to https://everything.You can say no and not feel guilty.
6. Drink some hot tea: Grab a spot of tea and just enjoy the relaxation it brings. Allow the warmth to soothe you.
7. Read a good book: Take some time to read a book that you've wanted to read. Take your time to get into the fantasy of your imagination.

Make it a restful day. Try to limit your stress and practice some self care. Your body, mind and spirit will thank you. #EDUCATE #inspire #encourage #empower #lupusincolor