Today, I wanted to highlight the fantastic Super Contributor, Amelia Blackwater!
Amelia is so open about sharing her experience around chronic illness, mental health, disability, and autism, but today
I wanted to highlight a story she’s written about migraine and one very relatable one to those who live with chronic pain.
Here are two stories that will make you feel seen by Amelia with a little snippet.
Your Migraine Pain Is Still Valid Even If You're Smiling Through It
“Pain can make a person say and do things that they don’t mean. There have been times it was easier to use you as a release for my pain and frustration than to try to let you in. I’m sorry I have pushed you away. Hell, I’m sorry I have pushed you away and then blamed you when you gave me the space I made you think I wanted. I don’t need more space. What I need is to know that it’s OK to be vulnerable. I know now that you’ve been trying to let me know this for so long.”
To My Husband, Whom I’ve Hurt Because of Being in Chronic Pain
“There are two photos of me; both of these photos portray me with an extremely painful migraine. One of them I’m smiling looking like I’m fine and the other I’m frowning, eyes are tearing and my hand is to my temple. The first photo was from work. I was smiling and laughing, masking the pounding and throbbing migraine pain.”
Be sure to give her a follow on her author page here: Amelia Blackwater (@amelia-blackwater)
Share what other topics you’d like to see her or other migraine writers cover in the comments!
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