lonley

Read a post that asked the question why put up with being alone if you’re gonna die eventually anyway? And that really has me thinking. Most of us live our lives just barely above water. Drowning most of the time with little to no lifeline. Alone or at least feeling lonely even when surrounded by people. Can it be we were just put here to see how many people can survive without first removing themselves from the game, the game of life. Which is unfair and almost always stacked against you. We want to be seen, loved, understood. But most of us never find anyone who can fully and completely and wholly love all of us even the darkest parts that we often hide and can’t love ourselves. IDK been thinking lately about how everyone has someone. As humans we weren’t built to be alone yet so many of us are. Maybe it’s a lie we tell ourselves. The lie being that there is someone for everyone. Maybe there isn’t. Maybe some of us just aren’t meant to have someone. #lonley #alone #Depression #Anxiety #PTSD

Since I've been on The Mighty, I've had several requests for DMs. The conversations never went anywhere, and I didn't think anything about it. Then I was on here and read an article about emotionally predatory men (yes I'm sure there are women too) who come on here, scan for who seems #Vulnerable , then proceed to try to talk to these vulnerable people in an effort to #manipulate said people for their own nefarious reasons. I was floored. I thought about it, and I have NEVER had one single woman send me a DM. It's always been men. Then it occurred to me that when I said "Hey what's up?" Virtually all of them said "I'm just looking to chat with someone because I'm #lonley ." Yet when I tried to talk about mental or physical health or anything appropriate for The Mighty, they had nothing to say. When I looked at these men's profiles, virtually all of them had made zero comments, no real bio, were not in any groups, but we're following like 30 Mighty members, who allllll happen to be female.
I feel really angry with myself for not catching this sooner, but I'm working through that anger. So now, when I get random DMs from some guy, I always say "Hi, what were you needing to talk about?" Not ONE of them has even replied. At all.
Just remember to be careful. Emotional predators are real, and they are everywhere, including The Mighty.
#EmotionalPredator #unsafe #manipulation #EmotionalHealth

I’m so tired. I’m having terrible nightmares and I wake up screaming and my throat dry and even though there are 3 other ppl in this house I am always alone. There is absolutely no one on my life and sometimes I like it that way, no chance of getting hurt. But staying up all night because I am too scared too to sleep over and over, it’s pretty shitty. Did anyone know there is actually a word to describe someone who wants a relationship before they have sex. They are demisexual. They want to take time. I guess that might b me. From being frozen to never wanting again. Terrified of it. Maybe the right understanding gy

i would run to your house if you needed me, but when i need you your to busy. i get it though, im the expendable one of the group.

#I hate admitting #I just can't cope