Is it me??
#Anxiety . I’ve been staying at my daughters because I broke my right hand and am missing most of my left hand due to a birth defect. Mostly she’s been very caring, helping me and taking me to appointments and helping with tasks it is difficult or impossible to do. But twice in the last couple of weeks I’ve been here, she’s vehemently accused me of gaslighting. Apparently her new therapist diagnosed me as gaslighting her. Or she lied to her. I don’t know. If I disagree with her about anything, she flares up. This is a relationship that has been very difficult. My bipolar II changed into Bipolar 1 after postpartum kicked it into overdrive. I am already wanting to leave especially when she has said three times “we need to establish an end date for you to be here” and then when I say ok, she accuses me of getting all better (not so) and leaving when I don’t need her, and upsetting the kids. I’m not arguing or saying anything to or around the kids. My car is in the shop near here (I live 45 miles away), so I have no car until 9/6. I’m told to call my son, who she has always said I favored, or she’ll drop me off at my apartment (alone and with no car). I have agreed to go if she wants me to but that is completely turned around as though I’m leaving on purpose,etc thanks for listening. I’m 70 and my daughter is 36. If I have to I’ll stay with my son. Never again at her house. #BipolarDepression