Neither Here Nor Gone
I've been thinking about suicide for sixteen years. It's not just a fleeting thought or a dramatic impulse. It's… always there. A shadow in every room. A second voice in every silence.
It’s strange — how something so final can feel like comfort. Like a secret backup plan. A form of control when everything else feels out of reach.
Sometimes it helps me fall asleep. Sometimes it holds me while I cry.
There was a teacher once, years ago, who said: “People who take their own lives are the truly brave ones.” And something in me agreed. At least they did something. At least they made a choice.
But I didn’t. I haven’t.
I exist in this in-between. Not alive the way I want to be, but not gone either.
I live in a limbo — half real, half fantasy. A place where I picture myself gone, but still wake up, scroll, smile, and say, "I'm fine."
Do you ever get out of it?