I'm in the middle of writing a post about my "fixer" personality trait. For the record, it's NOT control issue. I have no desire for control over anyone other than people being irresponsible enough to ignore social distancing guidelines. I will 100% admit wanting to control those people so they stop killing people. Other than that, it's not a control thing. It's just how my brain works. Telling me not to find solutions is like telling me not to breath, but, it's only because I hate to see people struggling in any way. ESPECIALLY, if I see a real solution that can help. I understand that not every problem has a fix, and I also understand that people sometimes just need to vent, but venting only does so much. It's healthy and helpful for processing through feelings you don't fully understand, and I am always willing to be there for someone who needs to do so, but I may follow-up with something I find could be helpful. I don't tell you that it's the only way to fix things, or try to pressure you- I just let you know you have options in case it's something you may not have thought of. Just venting, and getting upset when real options are given, can lead to a pattern of dealing with the same problems over and over. Many people fall into this pattern with at least a few issues in their lives. Don't be so against solutions that you create, or worsen, your problems. For more from me, visit the link in my profile or search Written by Dida #LifeLessons #MentalHealth #ChronicIllness #chronicillnesswarrior #Relationships #Addiction #COVID19 #alonetogether #togetheralone #athometogether #togetherathome #quarantine #pandemic2020 #writtenbydida #InvisibleDisability #invisibleillnesswarrior #Fibromyalgia #fibrowarrior #fibrosucks #spooniewarrior #Spoonie #InvisibleIllness