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Please don’t get me wrong. Messages of support are so appreciated and grateful for them. But coming from strangers, what does it mean? What value is there? We don’t even know each other? I guess it’s the same as in groups like AA. And coming from the same familu and friends who have hurt amd disappointed you? It’s like theyre just cleaning their conscience. I’m sorry but I’m at the end of it.

I've never been able to understand those that bash others who are confused and trying to learn about others disabilities, not only are you being rude, your not helping with the stigma. People who bash those trying to learn can put a setback in people's learning. You can't expect them to "just get it" and then turn around mad when they get it wrong. Its contradictive, uncalled for and is unfair to the others who have the condition. How? people can start stigmatized "they can be mean" and when you get irritated its a confirmation "they ARE mean" and it furthers the stigma. Learning is a process of trial and error before understanding, no one can fully understand before explanation or on the first try usually. Think carefully before you reply, have a level head, remember they don't know, and show you are no threat. While there are those who can be like that, most people are kind and recognize you ARE TRYING and you CARE which can make us feel like we have a voice being heard. Keep asking, keep looking, keep trying, don't give up. We hear you!
love ya
-HJHtheartist

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