LupusWarriors

Was recently dx with lupus cystitis they say it’s rare I live in Saint Louis near one of the world’s highly ranked hospital #BarnesJewishHospital and I’m the first case they’ve ever seen in person its when lupus attacks the bladder, I just recently finished a three day course of 3,000mg prednisone and my first dose of cytoxin chemotherapy it’s gotten off to a super rough start haven’t felt well enough to do much more #Fibromyalgia I’m tired but there’s still too much to fight for

This Monday I had surgery on my left breast to remove suspicious tissue to have it tested for breast cancer, I had have my mother in law to take me to surgery, because it was my husband's first day on a contract job. He never called, or texted to even check if I was ok and when he finally called to say he was coming home, all he did was talk about his new job 🙄 and it wasn't until, I asked him... Do you want to know how the surgery went? That he asked about it, he shows no concern, or compassion towards me for the past 3 days! I've been recuperating at home, he doesn't call me or text me to check on me, we have been together 10 years, I have lupus and he has always been kind of supportive, so I don't really know what to think! Is this a way of him dealing with it? Am I overreacting? Should I feel upset? Or just give him space? I am feel so alone and lost right now, please someone help! #LupusWarrior

This Monday I had surgery on my left breast to remove suspicious tissue to have it tested for breast cancer, I had have my mother in law to take me to surgery, because it was my husband's first day on a contract job. He never called, or texted to even check if I was ok and when he finally called to say he was coming home, all he did was talk about his new job 🙄 and it wasn't until, I asked him... Do you want to know how the surgery went? That he asked about it, he shows no concern, or compassion towards me for the past 3 days! I've been recuperating at home, he doesn't call me or text me to check on me, we have been together 10 years, I have lupus and he has always been kind of supportive, so I don't really know what to think! Is this a way of him dealing with it? Am I overreacting? Should I feel upset? Or just give him space? I am feel so alone and lost right now, please someone help! #LupusWarrior