Do you know Kerry?
Yeh, you know her, we all have known or currently know a girl like Kerry.
Kerry is so charismatic, fun and intoxicatingly charming, but look a little deeper and you will see she is just intoxicatingly toxic and that's where the fun stops.
Do you often feel like you are walking on eggshells with this girl careful not to trigger one of her famous mood swings which are never pleasant.
Kerry loves to help you out but remember there are always strings attached, you will be forever listening to stories repeated about how she did this for you or that for you, making sure you are always owing her something, this is a transactional ‘friendship’.
Let me tell you from my personal experience with Kerry, she will always want more of your time, energy and soul, you will be surprised at how much one person can take from you, while still making you feel you are in their debt.
You're just going to keep going around in circles with her.
You don’t have to wait for something unforgivable to happen before you cut ties, you will always look like the bad guy in her narrative regardless.
She is careless with your mental health and ultimately selfish.
You need to do what is best for you because that’s what she would do in a heartbeat, in fact that’s what anyone should do always.
You don’t need her, end it now or it will end in tears, your tears, because to the Kerry’s of the world you are always disposable.
I hope you realize your worth and next time you meet Kerry; I hope you just keep on walking.
I wrote this two years ago and ignored my own advice and instead of walking past Kerry I walked straight back into the toxic cycle.
Oh she is good this Kerry girl, please don’t even bother with the Kerry's in your life, when you let her back in she will love bomb you and bend over backwards at first.
But it will not last, the passive aggression, the manipulation, toying with your emotions and the general head games are on their way, oh I have no doubt about that.
The power is within you to open your eyes and stop people pleasing, burying your head in the sand will only prolong the inevitable suffering and the general toxicity.
This time I had my eyes wide open and honestly no matter how many times I stood up for myself, it made no difference, the tricks got more devious, the lies more believable, but when you have your eyes open your intuition, your gut feeling screams at you ‘Get Out while you still can.
Thankfully I didn’t wait to be stabbed in the back this time to make my exit from the malicious cycle, I knew it was coming, so I saved myself from the pain and cut all contact. No explanation just blocked and deleted.
Please follow your intuition and do not wait for the inevitable betrayal, Kerry doesn’t give a damn, so take a leaf out of her book and stop giving a damn about her and give a damn about yourself and your own happiness.
Do you know Kerry?
Yeh, you know her, we all have known or currently know a girl like Kerry.
Kerry is so charismatic, fun and intoxicatingly charming, but look a little deeper and you will see she is just intoxicatingly toxic and that's where the fun stops.
Do you often feel like you are walking on eggshells with this girl careful not to trigger one of her famous mood swings which are never pleasant.
Kerry loves to help you out but remember there are always strings attached, you will be forever listening to stories repeated about how she did this for you or that for you, making sure you are always owing her something, this is a transactional ‘friendship’.
Let me tell you from my personal experience with Kerry, she will always want more of your time, energy and soul, you will be surprised at how much one person can take from you, while still making you feel you are in their debt.
You're just going to keep going around in circles with her.
You don’t have to wait for something unforgivable to happen before you cut ties, you will always look like the bad guy in her narrative regardless.
She is careless with your mental health and ultimately selfish.
You need to do what is best for you because that’s what she would do in a heartbeat, in fact that’s what anyone should do always.
You don’t need her, end it now or it will end in tears, your tears, because to the Kerry’s of the world you are always disposable.
I hope you realize your worth and next time you meet Kerry; I hope you just keep on walking.
I wrote this two years ago and ignored my own advice and instead of walking past Kerry I walked straight back into the toxic cycle.
Oh she is good this Kerry girl, please don’t even bother with the Kerry's in your life, when you let her back in she will love bomb you and bend over backwards at first.
But it will not last, the passive aggression, the manipulation, toying with your emotions and the general head games are on their way, oh I have no doubt about that.
The power is within you to open your eyes and stop people pleasing, burying your head in the sand will only prolong the inevitable suffering and the general toxicity.
This time I had my eyes wide open and honestly no matter how many times I stood up for myself, it made no difference, the tricks got more devious, the lies more believable, but when you have your eyes open your intuition, your gut feeling screams at you ‘Get Out while you still can.
Thankfully I didn’t wait to be stabbed in the back this time to make my exit from the malicious cycle, I knew it was coming, so I saved myself from the pain and cut all contact. No explanation just blocked and deleted.
Please follow your intuition and do not wait for the inevitable betrayal, Kerry doesn’t give a damn, so take a leaf out of her book and stop giving a damn about her and give a damn about yourself and your own happiness.