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Hi, my name is Minnacious. I'm here because it's not like we used to do or we used to grow, they said you have to care about parents, you need to shut your eyes in front of your parents, blaablaablaa
And yeah, they care us, provide for us, take to hospital, but bro no one is here to check if we are okay, see they are our parents and they only need our physical well being, when we cant work for them or else we dont reply to them theyre like going to kill ourselves, their kids
and even cursing their child.
For someone who read this, it's not your fault, babe. They assume that you have done that, they start accusing you of the bad things, to be honest, it's a privilege to be a girl until something went wrong, and all of a sudden, they forgot the things we did right. Toxic parenting isn't such a small thing. As an Indian, we need to stay in this horrible place until our marriage, and the in-laws' house is bro, should I need to explain? And with their constant blaming, not have permission to go out and relax. And we shout out of anger( see, men can do this no matter what), they accuse us of being dangerous to human beings, scolding, slapping, beating.
I have a question: what are we supposed to do in this household? Study and score 99 percent, cry quietly? Did we have the basic freedom to sleep quietly? Or is it curtailed or what?