This Is Body Grief by Jayne Mattingly is a compassionate guide to understanding the emotional pain that comes with changes to our bodies, whether from chronic illness, disability, injury, aging, or obesity. Mattingly introduces the concept of “body grief” to describe the mourning we experience when our bodies no longer match our expectations or identity. Drawing from her personal journey with illness and disability, she outlines seven nonlinear stages of grief, from denial and hopelessness to eventual body trust.
Blending memoir with stories from others, the book validates the emotional struggle of living in a body that feels unfamiliar or socially rejected. Mattingly challenges harmful beauty standards and ableism, offering tools like self-compassion, storytelling, and somatic practices to support healing. In just over 200 pages, This Is Body Grief gives readers language for their pain and a gentle path toward acceptance and connection with their changing bodies.