Self Care (the boring kind)
I took the afternoon off of work today. When i woke up this morning i felt really rough, which is not surprising in a way - i am doing yet another med change (for depression) and have been experiencing some moderate trauma responses in the past few weeks. It’s been hard to relax and rest and i am worn out.
I made the decision to take the afternoon off early in the day and that actually helped me get more done at work this morning than i think i would have if i had chosen to power through the whole day. Often, i can be really indecisive about taking a mental health day, with the result that I usually don’t. So the first act of self care i did for myself today was to recognize what i needed and make a firm decision. (I am lucky that my managers are all supportive of staff using sick days and mental health days - i know not every workplace is like this. I wish all employers would understand that in the long run more and better quality work gets done when employees feel able to take a mental health day when needed.)
After i ate lunch, i had some rest time in bed with my cats. I listened to a guided meditation and then some music. Later on, i took a walk. When i got home, i did a little tidying. Now i am waiting for my take out order to come - there’s a good vegetarian restaurant that does really nourishing and tasty meals and it made sense not to force myself to cook tonight. I like cooking in general but it does take a lot of energy. I am trying not to feel bad for not making the dinner i had planned (and that i have the ingredients for). I can make it tomorrow, when hopefully i have some more energy. I ordered enough take out that i have leftovers for lunch tomorrow too.
After dinner, I’m planning to have a bath. Then chill out in bed with the cats. Maybe read. Go to bed early.
Self care can be really hard for me sometimes, so i wanted to post and take a moment to notice and acknowledge that i have done a good job of it today.
#Depression #MajorDepressiveDisorder #Anxiety #Selfcare #medchange #Trauma