hello.my name is Anna and i am 14 years old.I am from austria and i wanna share my story of how i am dealing with sexual harrasment.
I know i am still a child.And that is so sad.I mostly know what sexual assult is but i never got to deal with it before like this.it is a bit easier when it is a stranger, but a own family member who lives in your house is unimgainable.
Since my parents divorced after long years of fighting everyday, my mom finally found someone.My stepdad.He was always really nice and chill.I thought i could trust him.at the time i always had a bad feeling that something was wrong.(i was 10 i suppose)I dont know why but i just did.I always heard alot of storys of someone getting sexually harassed by their stepdads.Which fricked me out alot.
I am going on now.When i was in 5th grade i found out that he watches inapropriate videos on the internet.From that on my opinion on him changed.I never viewed him the same.This wasnt the only thing.From that point i started ralizing more and more(idk if he did something before i was 13 but i couldnt realize).He started making sexual jokes about my body.He started looking at me weirdly.And he started doing ,,,acidental,, touches.But the worst thing is that i dont know if he knows what he is doing or if he does it unintentionaly you know.Some people dont know what is appropriate or not.I dont know how ro explain it.I have the feeling that this is a misunderstanding but the things he did dont feel very harmless.
I am currently going to the school psychologist.I told her for the first time 3 days ago.I felt a reliefe because i was carrying this weight for atleast a few months.She told me to agree on an experiment to find out if he is doing these things unintentionaly or if he knows what he is doing(i hope yall know what i mean).
She told me to say ,,please stop,, when he says sexual jokes or touches me.If he doesnt stop he is a predator.If he does i am thankfull.Till now, nothing special has happened anymore(exept staring at body parts).But i will try.
I wanted to post this because i wanna find people with the same expirience as me.So i can do something about it and to feel beter.Wish me luck #sexual #harrasment sa#sexual #harrasment