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I’m not getting the medical attention I need!

I had a cardiologist appointment today to check on some of my health issues that have been going on for multiple years. Today I saw four doctors in total (all who focus on the heart and everything like that) I told them some of my symptoms but they didn’t let me finish and they said I have something that I’ll grow out of. They said I should drink more water and work out (when I work out my heartbeat is 170) they didn’t want to do ANY tests or try ANY medications. There is a cardiologist in that office that focuses on the autonomic nervous system and they wouldn’t let me make an appointment with them even though I told them my pcp said it be a good idea to see someone who specializes in the autonomic nervous system and my pcp suspects dysautonomia. I have to wait until THEY call me to make an appointment with the doctor that could actually help me but they don’t know when they will call me. They also said I don’t have a connective tissue disorder even though a genetic specialist and rheumatologist diagnosed me with one!!! I’m so tired of not getting the medical attention I need!!!
#Dysautonomia #AutonomicDysfunction #Depression #frustrated

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Pacing sucks

Fall had finally arrived and all I want to do is cook & bake to stock the freezer with yummy fall meals and treats. But I'm dizzier than ever and my energy lasts just a moment before I'm too tired to move. I miss the days of cooking & baking all weekend so I would have food to put up in the freezer and plenty more to share with neighbors and friends.

But after making just one skillet meal, I'm in bed again resting. I have so many things I want to make! Apple walnut french toast, pumpkin bread, apple cider muffins, pork & apple pie, apple cider brined turkey breast. My mind is racing with new recipes but every time I sit up, my head spins.

I'm definitely missing the healthy days. #Fibromyalgia #ChronicFatigue #RheumatoidArthritis #AutonomicDysfunction

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- A Healing Journey (Actual progress!)

Dealing with Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (EDS) and other chronic muscle and joint conditions has taught me a lot about how the body works under stress. One key takeaway is that when muscles are overworked or injured, they tighten up as a defense mechanism. This process takes up a lot of energy, so to conserve resources, the body smartly creates scar tissue to bind everything in place. It’s a clever form of resource management, designed to prioritize immediate survival needs. But the trade-off? Long-term function gets compromised.

One of the most important things I’ve learned is that getting those tight, restricted tissues moving again is the critical first step in recovery. Over the past decade, tools like foam rollers and massage balls have become mainstream. But while they’re great for some people, they don’t always work for bendy bodies. Our muscles overlap differently, and areas like joints require special care. Plus, when you add issues like Mast Cell Activation Syndrome (MCAS), dysautonomia, and fragile lymphatic systems into the mix, direct compression often does more harm than good for many of us.

For people with hypermobility, it’s all about balancing the release of bound-up tissue and restoring healthy function—without irritating the body further. Once the soft tissues regain mobility and inflammation calms down, the body stops compensating and is ready to rebuild strength and proper function and with even better body-mind awareness. Proprioception (the body's ability to know where it is in space, e.g. how you can touch your nose with your eyes closed) can improve, and daily tasks can start to become less burdensome.

It's all incremental though, hypermobile bodies deserve and need gentle progress.

I'm so thankful to the Muscle and Joint Clinic for their diverse and gentle approach to healing. Focused shockwave therapy brings instant relief to my tired muscles and red light therapy down regulates my nervous system. Getting myself into the rest and digest mode has been so vital to my healing.

While my symptoms can flare up in sudden and unpredictable ways, my recovery time is dramatically shortened. I most recently had a migraine with a brainstem aura that had me 1. worried I was having a stroke and 2. asleep for close to twelve hours and sensitive to light for more. I was worried about what that much bed rest would do to my recovery. Luckily, I have some more wiggle room when it comes to full bed rest. My strength and function have been rebuilt enough that I get a day off from physical therapy. A year ago, one day off would cause a cascade of debilitating subluxations and autonomic dysfunction. So while these days feel scary and like there's no end in sight, I'm sitting at my desk two days later amazed that I'm back at 80% function, and not the 20% I would be a year ago.

I’ve focused here on the physical aspects, there's also the emotional layers of healing. Underneath a lot of this body pain, there's definitely the younger version of me, ignored by doctors, teachers, and even childhood friends. I also have to look after her and remind her to not minimize the pain, to acknowledge it, talk about it, and seek the treatment I know I deserve.

#EhlersDanlosSociety #EDS #POTS #HypermobilitySyndrome #DegenerativeDiscDisease #AutonomicDysfunction #ADHD #neuro #Fibromyalgia #MastCellActivationDisorder #MentalHealth

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Partner resentful of me, how to proceed with job apps

My partner is working 2 jobs to support us both. I’ve been out of work for two years after getting fired because of my illnesses.

Getting let go from multiple positions in a row really shook my confidence. Today he and I had a big fight because he feels like he’s carrying all the weight and responsibility of the income, and has been very frustrated with me and snapping at lots of little things that turned out to be big resentment about me not working. He feels I’ve been unemployed way too long and need to get it together and be an adult. It’s hard with arthritis, brain fog, pots, celiac and EDS :(

He gets frustrated about things like needing to do the stairs to grab something when I can’t, or getting annoyed from seeing me wincing in pain, or when I get upset at strangers’ invasive questions. He feels like a caretaker not a partner. He just wants me to get a job.

I took a certificate course in medical coding, but have been slow to schedule the state exam because I’m terrified to fail and also don’t really know how to navigate getting hired & retained with visible disability, chronic illness and as a cane user.
Really need a hug and maybe some tips?
#EhlersDanlosSyndrome #AutonomicDysfunction #CeliacDisease #Arthritis

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Good morning!

Last night there was a cockroach in the kitchen, when I saw it I almost die KAHAKAJ, My heart was beating fast and I couldn't breathe for a second.
The cockroach didn't hurt me, I'm a survivor 💪 #AutonomicDysfunction #Dysautonomia #POTS

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Never saw that coming

I did a thing. I did some research over the last couple weeks on psychologist in my local area.

As you can tell I have been struggling mentally and am a bubble of coffee about to over flow my mug. Yes I said coffee because that is about the only thing that is keeping me up right at the moment .

20 -30 minutes of deep sleep a night and little rem is not doing me any favors.

I found one I almost cancelled at the last second but took a gamble and called her up she reminded me so much of my step mama and took me back to days or nights sitting on the kitchen floor as I talked to her while she did her hair or what not. She got me in the next day.

I advocate for mental health and getting the correct treatment weather medication or talking to someone. Or both. I am not so great and following my own words when it comes to self help.

I’m better at taking care of others than I am at taking care of myself .

My middle school counselor was someone I truly opened up too. Saw him for a couple years and then he passed from cancel. Sense then I have not been able to get over the hurdle of seeing someone new.

Well I took the first step and I think I’m going go take another. Next appointment in two weeks and giving EMDR a try. This should be interesting. I came out of the womb stressed

#MixedConnectiveTissueDiseaseMCTD #MentalHealth #RaynaudsPhenomenon #RheumatoidArthritis #AutonomicDysfunction #Anxiety #ChronicFatigue #Depression

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Little 🐥

I just told my daughter L. that I would prefer to do it tomorrow or Wednesday. So that I can make sure I have the energy to enjoy the time together vs how I feel exhausted today after a long day.

It really wasn’t bad or anything just one of those Mondays at work nothing really great and nothing really bad. Just was.

Back to L. It was so odd for me to say that. I normally am not good at that bouncy especially when it comes to kids or elderly. I think it’s just how I was raised . I was always the care giver. It felt empowering though. She wasn’t thrilled of course what 16 year old would be for saying no to going to a “junk store” to “look”. Aka me driving all over the place spending energy money and time. I enjoy the moments and I know they won’t always be there . Just interesting how when they get older boundaries can change and adapt. Also is weird to me because how I am with L. Is so different than I am with B. (Oldest daughter) . Such different personalities and to the extreme opposite but not .

All in all weird but good feeling for holding a boundary . Even if it was with family .

#MixedConnectiveTissueDiseaseMCTD #RaynaudsPhenomenon #AutonomicDysfunction #RheumatoidArthritis #MentalHealth #Anxiety

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Glue Trap

Feeling sticky and stuck.
Seeing the same things all the regular ins and outs of my days.
Hearing the constant negativity around work.
Home is not much better. Not really anyone’s fault there because it’s constant bombarding from outside source. Mainly one in particular. Besides my point.

Normally I can handle the madness that is presented to me and I might add pretty calmly too.
Medication changes, dosages up and down. Emotional. Head doesn’t feel right. Feeling like I am stuck were I am. I take a step forward and then snap right back to we’re I was mentally. Constant tug a war.

Not a lot actually makes my soul happy anymore . More of auto pilot and going through the emotions. Existing surviving . Not living.

I know no one really imagines the negative or bad stuff happening nor do we want it to happen. That’s life. Ohhh is the universe really testing me.

Breathe in . Breathe out. Breathe in. Let all the BS out.

Stop absorbing . No more room. You don’t have to fix everything.

Don’t even feel like I am in my own body or skin. Just the remaining essence in me that still exists.

#MixedConnectiveTissueDiseaseMCTD #AutonomicDysfunction #RaynaudsPhenomenon #RheumatoidArthritis #MentalHealth #ChronicFatigue #Depression #Anxiety

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