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I travelled 18 hours back and forth. With holdall bags larger than me on overflowing trains, sleeping and awaking from startling nightmares whilst aboard. I travelled a lot whilst in Wales. Yet none of it was beneficial.

Picture it. I was 18, confused, trying my best, doing what I was supposed to do.

This was the second coming of my internal struggles.

I have a vivid memory of when I was 11 years old, making myself sick after eating. Staying up after midnight and watching shows like The Villa?! I watched these young, clueless attractive people live out misogynistic nonsense and instead of questioning it I did 200 sit ups wishing I was attractive.

I remember my neighbour who was a few years younger commenting that my body looked weird because I had lumps on my nipples as my breasts were forming and that I stood oddly like my hips were too far forward.

I can remember a family friend making a comment along the lines of, ‘she’s grown into her looks’ when I was 15 years old. I have always had an intrinsic need to be liked and desired as I was under the impression that was my worth.

It wasn’t until I was almost 19 when I had my first near death crisis.

I can vaguely remember friends in my student halls of residence, using pint glasses to put my black vomit from the tiny sink in my room to the shared toilet. There were also a lot of things and actions I don't remember but my flatmates thought it was funny to spell out something along the lines of “Linny and x are lesbains, humping on the kitchen floor.”

I remember being told no one wanted to socialise with me and x cause we always fought (like a married couple).

It could be argued I wasn’t ready to be away from home but it could also be argued that it is what started the slow and painful process to where I am now.

I know what you’re thinking. Where were your parents? They were being spectacular. Working for the then semi functional NHS, saving lives, making a difference whilst also raising three girls. I could make assumptions about them, I could chastise them for decisions but I won’t because I know in my soul they did their best and luckily they’re still around and continue to support me albeit at an arm's length.

I would talk about my sisters more but I feel I have already burdened them with so much. They didn't’ ask to have a Bi-Polar, Borderline Personality Disorder, queer mess as a sister. What I will say however, is I truly regret the trauma I have probably caused them.

I did therapy. I continue to take medication. I am what is considered “stable”.

The fear though.

It never leaves. It is always there. The only time I’m not aware of it is when I am manic and being vivacious and what some consider ‘silly’.

#Bipolar #BPD #Depression #Anxiety #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #Old #help #Broken #Recovery #Masking #Relateable

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A Disney Day

It was a Disney Day at Magic Kingdom in Lake Buena Vista, Florida. I had an awesome time walking around with my cousin for her #Birthday . She is 40 years old, and I am 36! How the heck did we get so #Old ? I thought about #Life a lot this week, and I wondered about what the future holds for us all.

Are any of you trying #desperately to avoid watching the #News on TV? I sure do. I don't watch news clips on YouTube or read news articles that contain #negativity because my brain cannot handle it. Can yours?

I wish that things were #different . I know that we all wish things could have been improved as it feels pretty horrible right now. I would be lying if I said I did not go on YouTube and watch a few newsclips. #Youtube is always my #Outlet to receive #Communication from the world and watch my favorite creators. However, It is #hard to get myself away from the news section. The #gasprices alone are enough to cause a concern.

So... I want to spend as much time as I can visiting Magic Kingdom while I have the chance. I am thankful for my annual pass, as we bought it before I lost my #Job with Universal Studios.


Anyway... how are you??

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#day to day events 12-2-21 or days prior

#Relationships #Friends #Old age
Today is my dad’s birthday. He has been gone for over 42 years. I still think of him w admiration and pride. He was a good dad.

But, my dad’s birthday has gotten me to think of my dad and the fact he had 6 kids. We were there for him. We were young, but did the best we could to visit him when he was sick. We were all very concerned about him every step of the way.

This brings me to think about me and my husband. We have no children. We have no one to be here for us if we get sick and no one to visit us in a hospital or other type institution. Who would get our groceries? Other needs? What about any problems where we live? Who would handle? We continue to work to pay for health care to help us as we age. But, when is enough work enough.

We would have to have someone manage the health care aides, pay them ( w our resources) and who would visit us? This is a luxury we just don’t have. Who could we get to manage this personnel.? Home healthcare aides have to be managed & paid. Who could we trust to handle this?

When you don’t have children, you are stuck. I don’t know any other way around this. Will we have enough to support this kind of care? If so, who can we get to manage them? These are all questions swimming around inside my head. These are the questions I have no answers for.

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Best of friends

Look at these two guys! Still screwing around and one of them turned 82 yesterday :-) I love this friendship that they both have and lament I don't have anybody to pull silly faces with yet! But this is one of my favourite pictures, two decent famous dudes taking time to enjoy the little things. This photo always makes me chuckle, smile and can help banish darker thoughts :-) have met both these guys when I was younger and know that they are truly beautiful people. What makes you smile when the dark thoughts creep in?

#Friendship #best #funny #Celebrities #Old age

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Loved the #Old dirt road and I have accepted it but it took sometime and the friends in Realestate said the house property value went down fast from

The road being paved # It was a great horse property with the dirt road. Lyme is very bad today and wondering if it is a new case so I will need Doxycycline again 🕷💪

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Miss you

Have you missed someone so much that your better off without them. I had a best friend then she basically kicked me to the side. Only talked to you when it was good for. Since she got a new best friend #Old #best -friend #sad #Missyou #bordlinePersonalityDisorder