I recently received and awarded medical accommodations not only due to my Ehlers-Danlos Hypermobile disability but also Epstein-Barr Syndrome; chronic which has completely compromised my immune system and have had not only Covid twice but most recently walking pneumonia and in the past bronchitis, strep, the flu, the list goes on. I have since receiving the medical accommodations which include leave, missed work including today a total of two times that will no longer count against me as they are protected federally. However what I didn't say in the title is living with my husband. We have not had an official ceremony yet, hopefully planning for it in April next year. I have also decided what I want to do for our honeymoon, universal studios in particular hogwarts and get myself and my husband (I'm officially a Gryffindor and he's a Ravenclaw) our official robes and and get us our own wands. We are also practicing, side note, Wiccans and witches hopefully no one will be offended by that. What we do is mostly praying or lighting candles or incense for our closest friends and family to be safe and have speedy recoveries. Also cleansing and keeping on us a variety of crystals ranging from labradorite to sandstone, which we cleanse via full moon lunar cycles. Sorry, got sidetracked. My husband while supportive and has been my superhero and savior on more than one occasion, even before we were dating, is very temperamental when it comes to my disabilities, pain and especially missing work, especially now that he works in the same location different department as myself. My management team has been behind me since a very wretched and ongoing familial problem started in October which has only added to my PTSD, and they are now even more supportive making sure that I am okay. The general Manger is even rewarming up to me and is an awesome and great guy. But my husband, especially since he waits till the last minute to get out of the bed to get ready and go to work while I'm already halfway dressed and checking emails, is angry and yells at me when an event like this happens. I have officially had to solemnly swear to not miss anymore work unless work sends me home due to illness. I can't use the prescription muscle relaxer because when I crash with it I move around and am in more pain. So I have had to resort to something that hopefully this post won't get taken down for, a THC pen. That and a tramadol are now all that works in getting my pain and muscle spasms under control. Yes I will fully admit that I wad stupid yesterday and was the one to change the oil on our car instead of my husband, with very low ramps holding the car up. So that is the reason I missed today from work and I dislocated my hips yesterday but said to my husband when he relocated them this morning that they had done it in my sleep. Again, my husband has been super supportive and but it is demeaning and hard when he yells at me for missing work. Sorry for the long post. #EhlersDanlosSociety