Thought about pride month. It's a time to celebrate diversity. So I thought I'd properly introduce myself.
Howdy, I'm Nox.
I'm an asexual polyamorous panromantic trans man and I'm a pagan kitchen witch.
let's break this down to better understand.
asexual - I don't engage in sexual activity. I've got sexual repulsive sexual aversion disorder. I was raped in 2020 and since then I've been disgusted by anything sexual, even talking or reading about sex and alternative sexual activity. my girlfriend and I don't have sex.
polyamorous - I engage in consensual relationship anarchy. this means I have multiple partners and everyone knows about the arrangement. my favorite part of it is called compersion. it's the act of being genuinely happy for your partner finding happiness in relationships outside of your dynamic.
panromantic - this means I can find romantic connections with people who identify as male, female, androgenous, bigender and more. it's used instead of of the more familiar pansexual identity because I am asexual.
trans man - ever since my early childhood I was drawn to more masculine activities. I never felt right identified as a girl. I knew I was supposed to be a guy. but I didn't have the knowledge of what that means until I was 16 and I found a copy of the book "Luna". I learned that there are people who feel the same way as me. I learned that I am transgender and I swear it was my biggest Aha moment.
pagan- I was raised Catholic but I never felt connected to the teachings of the church. I learned about the plethora of other religions in the world when I was a sophomore in highschool. I found paganism. it's an earth based spiritual path. it answered many questions. I also love how it doesn't teach hatred of anyone for being different.
kitchen witch - paganism is witchcraft but it's not the scary hook nosed child eating thing that media shows. my practice is largely in the kitchen. I strive to heal the soul with my cooking and baking.
I am an emotional support puppy. I mostly help with emotional regulation. mental health and wellness are my passion.
I'm a huge geek and I can talk for hours about cooking, baking, coffee and tea.
Things I am interested in:
*Puppy play
*Impact play
*Exploring food cultures
*Coffee and tea
*Going on adventures
*Cooking together
*Bubble tea
*Reading together
*Teaching classes on alternative lifestyle practices
If you have any questions please don't hesitate to ask.
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