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Im Overwhelmed and stressed with my home situation. As some of you who read my posts and follow me know about my drunk dead beat dad of a brother. He has been getting drunk off his ass every single day. And has been treating his wife and all of us like crap. My parents are tired and so am I. My sisterinlaw doesn't have anywhere else to go. And she loves my brother. But he is just so toxic with her and everyone around him. He started harassing the neighbors a few days ago because the guy would get him beer if my brother helped him. My neighbor doesn't drink and he didnt even get himself anything with the money he got to get the beer for my brother he would just have enough after to give to his family. Now that my neighbor stopped servicing my brother with his fix he decided to go to his house and demanded him to keep getting him beer. My poor neighbors wife had to call my parents sounding scared that my brother was at their house uninvited and demanding for her husband to keep buying him beer. And then today my brother was harassing my aunt to bring him a bottle from Mexico. Its just so much bull with him. I'm fearful of what he is capable of. I wish he would just get locked up already for stealing. Or driving drunk. Just something. He thinks hes untouchable. He needs to be brought into reality and realize what he does has consequences. And to top it off I'm afraid my family and I might get covid because my brother will just take off somewhere and we dont know where or with who. He said he doesn't care what happens. So thats my vent. #Vent #Family #help #Prayersneeded

If you pray, please send some prayers for my grandma and my family. My grandma is 92, her 93rd birthday is in 6 days. She lives with my parents and I, and has been in long term hospice for about a year after having a stroke. She was doing well until two weeks ago when she was in respite care for five days... when she came home the change was unbelievable. She could no longer walk and was extremely weak. The nurses/aides did not get her out of bed, did not change her clothes, and did not shower her. Her nurses/aides from hospice were not allowed in the facility “due to COVID”. The facility administration says that’s not true, that they were told they could come.

We are devastated. That nursing home is the reason my grandmother has entered the final stage of her dementia, and will probably not make it to New Years. I don’t even think she’ll make it to Christmas. She has been bedridden for the past three days, is rarely awake, and barely speaks, and when she does I can’t really understand her.

At this point we’re just keeping her comfortable and waiting for the inevitable. My parents and I have gotten sick from being so worn down and stressed, and unfortunately my mother had to be tested for COVID today as her doctors suspects she has it, which means both my father and I, not to mention my grandma, have been exposed. We won’t know for 48 hours if she’s positive or not.

I’m just really sad, overwhelmed, stressed, and feeling like crap right now. Prayers would be greatly appreciated. #Prayersneeded #CheckInWithMe #Hospice #Dementia

If you pray, please send up some prayers for my mom. We had to call 911 for her this afternoon. She presented with shortness of breath, upper abdominal pain that radiates to her back, chills, nausea. Paramedics wanted her checked out, so I drove her to the ER. She’s been admitted. It looks like she has pancreatitis and cholecystitis. A surgeon will talk to her in the morning.
I live with my parents, along with my 92 year old grandmother. My mom is pretty much her sole caregiver. We have hospice come twice a week to shower her. Unfortunately we’ve been without power since Tuesday. Luckily it just came back about two hours ago. So since we’ve been without power, she hasn’t had a shower since last Saturday. We called the on call nurse, to see if someone could come out tonight to help, but there is no on call aide, so we’re out of luck. So I got home from the hospital about 8:30, and had to get my grandmother ready for bed. I’m exhausted. I had two panic attacks earlier, my HR has been all over the place today, going as high as 183. I just want to go to bed.
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I have been awake since 1 am. it is nearly 5 am. I am completely stressing out about our finances. My husband was supposed to get a retro check a month ago and we still haven't seen it. We have less than $100 to our name and food stamps. we have at least two over due bills that are $100 each. I just want to be caught up on bills!

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