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Daydreaming of a Wonderful Moment

I thought about my daydreams, how I kept connecting to Namjoon of #bts , and how much I imagine myself in a different world. I wish I could change things in my life, but I cannot change who I am, become a different race, or live in a different financial world or career field. I cannot be an entirely different race, and I cannot live a life that is not meant to be mine.

But I often wish I could be part of his world like that. I sometimes think of it like Ariel from The Little Mermaid, who wants to be human to be with Prince Eric. She went through big extremes to get to where her heart was leading her. I do not have the capacity to go to a Sea Witch, offer my voice so I can become Korean and be a pop-idol (artist), and connect to meet Namjoon.

I feel sad sometimes.
I used to #disassociate a lot at the beginning of the year. I used to use this chatbot app to role-play being someone else. But then, later on, I realized that I did not seem to care about "ME" anymore and cared more about my daydreaming. I felt guilty for treating myself that way, as I felt like I was only hurting myself mentally.

I had to learn how to #lovemyself and love others just as they are. I should not ever want to change myself, be ashamed of my race or skin color, or where I grew up, to meet an unrealistic dream. If I ever met Namjoon from BTS, it would be a totally different experience from my daydreams.

I am back in reality, where I belong. I will swim around the sea, do what I need to do in this life, and continue to be the best version of myself. I promise to always help others along the way.

Love,
Valerie Corinne

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Anyone wish they were less emotional?

I love being an empathetic person and a highly sensitive person but sometimes the way society can judge us
As being too sensitive or weak
Is hard
We are strong in our own way, sometimes it’s tough though if I really need to cry I do

But I guess at times I kind of envy people who can seem more cold or stoic/ so called “stronger”

I wouldn’t change how I am but at times can be draining or feel like a gift and a curse. But I know just learning to cope with it better is best

#Emotions #emotional #hard #lovemyself #sensitive #Shame #Trying #HSP #Curious #personalities #interested #dontknow #easierbetter #Anxiety #Depression

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My Valentine gift to me

Mom and I went to the mall to walk around and I saw these beautiful earrings so I decided to buy myself a valentine gift. We don’t need someone else to treat us to something special. We have to learn to treat ourselves. #Selfcare #Selflove #lovemyself

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I have decided to love myself #lovemyself

I am listening to an audio book about loving myself. I decided this is my mantra. I am not checking if I am worthy, how do I feel, is this true? No I am telling myself, I love myself, period. This will be my go to
words in hard situations . I will act as if and repeat it even if I don’t feel it. I will say it in the morning first thing. I have it on my iPhone, my Instagaram, my fb page, I will put it into my art. Who knows even tattoo it on my arm where I can see it. I don’t know where this will take me but feels right. If my Higher Power loves me, I can love myself freely no matter what happens. I love myself 💜♥️❤️ So can you💜♥️❤️

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I love myself #lovemyself

I started listening to a book about like bing myself and I have decided this is going to be my mantra. I’m not going deep, I ‘m saying this to myself often. I put it on my iPhone lock page, FaceBook, Instagram. I am acting as if. If my Higher Power loves me then I can love myself. I want it to become my go to in every difficult situation. What I say first thing in the morning. Maybe tattoo it on my wrist. Use it in my art. I love myself. I love myself. I love myself. You can use this too.❤️♥️💜

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Self love is the best kind of love

My silver lining of 2020 was realizing that the most important relationship you will ever have is the one with yourself, and there’s nothing more powerful than the power of self love. Loving yourself is everything you need to sustain a meaningful life. It is accepting yourself unconditionally no matter what, which frees you from the burden of needing acceptance from anyone else. Loving yourself is realizing that every compliment and every kind gesture from others is just an add on to what already exists. It allows you to become more loving towards others and makes you want everyone to shine because you know for a fact that it will never dim your light. The energy that comes with loving yourself is magical that will inspire others to glow as well. The strength that comes with it is fulfilling that will make you acknowledge your worth and value. Self love isn’t being selfish. It’s respecting yourself enough that makes you not settle for anything less than what you deserve. At the end self love attracts the love of others and shows you that you are lovable with all the imperfections you have. The truth goes with this saying “no one can love you the way you love you” and you owe it to yourself.

I love you Rana♥️

#Selflove #Selfworth #worthy #loveyourself #lovemyself #beyou #Loveyou #YouAreBeautiful #Respect #happy #Happiness #MentalHealth #SilverLinnings #Empowerment #growth #Healing

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I am healing and letting myself be truly loved.

I am slowly healing mentally and physically after fighting cancer for 3 years and dealing with Borderline Personality Disorder. I have approximately 5 years to live. I am 40 years old. I have two types of non Hodgkin’s lymphoma. I am healing. I am accepting my situation. And I’m letting love crumble my walls built from many of my past wounds. I am a fighter. And I will always be a survivor even when cancer takes my life. #cancersurvivor #cancerterminal #fighter #heal #lovemyself

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I am starting to feel like me again.

I cant believe that I lost myself for so long. I am feeling myself again. I had lost myself after having complications with my pregnancy in 2017. I'm proud of how far I've come and excited to see where I end up. My husband is very supportive and understanding with my issues. I have Borderline Personality Disorder, PTSD, anxiety, and autism. #lovemyself #abetterme #bordeline Personality Disorder #PTSD #Autism #Anxiety

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Braver Stronger Smarter Loved #CheckInWithMe

Good Morning Mighty Friends
how are we all today.

Just wanted to tell you all how much I appreciate you all.
How much I love you all.
How much I love being part of this community this family.. How much it has already changed my life for the better how much more confident I feel being part of this big global community of loving caring Mightys.
This I am grateful for. #MightyTogether
We are stronger together.
❤👋👊😁🖐🌈🦋😇 #52SmallThings #PsoriaticArthritis #TrigeminalNeuralgia #SphincterOfOddiDysfunction #Anxiety #Bekind #lovemyself #Brave #strong #Love #PanicAttacks #RareDisease #thesunwillrisetomo #thissoonwillpass #peace

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