Narcissists tell on themselves all the time.
If you listen closely.
All the things they tell you during lovebombing, all the things they promise you they won't ever do to you, and all the promises they make about the future.
Are the EXACT opposite of what's going to happen.
All the things they judge people for, and all the things they tell you that people have done to them, all the behavior they tell you their exes are guilty of.
Are the EXACT things, that they themselves do.
All the little “warnings” they give you, that refer to dealing with them, such as “My ex did this n that, I dumped them, without an ounce of remorse”, “It takes a lot for me to start loving anyone”, or “I can be ruthless and mean, if you cross me”.
No matter what sentence follows those statements, like “But I would never do that to you”, or “But with you it feels different”, understand that those are true assertions about themselves. They count for any relationship, with anyone.
Yes, narcissists tell you everything about themselves,
They just do it in reverse.
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