How to stop being a mommas boy?
Remember you and your mom should have a special bond. But you're not her husband so don't act like it. Emotionally she shouldn't be pulling at you the way she would her husband or boyfriend. Don't let her run guilt trips on you talking about how long she was In labor with you. Saying how she really need a good man the cozying up to you, not cool. Change the subject, walk outside in another room break the cycle. These are Narcissistic tactics. I lived with a narc mom & dad but I broke free. They will say stuff like your not my son anymore, your dead to me. This means the whole family needs to heal. To do this don't call, or visit them minimum 1 year. Let them call you and limit the conversation to 15 minutes and only accept 1 call per every 2 weeks or 1 call per month. If they try to come to your house don't let them in. They are trying to regain control of your mind. Narc moms hate when there son gets a girlfriend or wife. Then she feels her son views her as second best to his wife or girlfriend. Keep your mom out of your head emotionally. Because that is the quickest way to lose your wife and yourself. For any questions on this topic please ask in the comments or direct message. #narcissistic #Mommasboy #Emotionally #MentalHealth