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How to Fully Destroy a Narcissistic Abuser #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #dark /superempath
I was just diagnosed with autism and ADHD at the ages of four and seven respectively. I had a 504 in place, but no one ever treated me as though I mattered, and they were simply following the law. Most teachers and every single betrayed me in one way or some other. The worst was an ablest teacher in that high school who taught AP World History. I knew this was no different than anyone else, but she completely went overboard with me having to wipe my nose with her around, teaching me apparently outside the classroom. She did not understand my allergies. She infantilized me by sitting me apart from everyone else, and people would stare at me. I felt watched under constant microscope of smothering and suffocating surveillance and freebie answers I wanted instead to find on my own. Yay, 9th Grade was over and so was that textationship for 2-week love-bombing on my side to help a vulnerable/covert narcissist feel more confident in her self-image. I was uplifting, not controlling as she was real control freak. I was publicly humiliated, had my own stuff licked, my own privacy invaded twice (stolen number, using mutual friends’ numbers), and the worst of the worst, being betrayed by the last psycho boyfriend #6 and two women children filing restraining orders over burner accounts I used to get rid of them as in telling them to F*** off. First was a reassurance junkie like I always been especially she bullied, harassed, ostracized, abused, deceived, betrayed, and traumatized me after the first boyfriend incident two years ago. Second was an egregious crybaby, who cannot handle anything but a narcissistic supply of histrionic tendencies for attention in court. I do not say this to cause any scandalous defamation, but to defeat a narcissist, you have five ways to do so. You can black rock them where you really go AWOL and have no contact whatsoever. If the situation requires you to be present with them, be a gray rock. Look as unassuming and as boring as possible. One-wording, but not yessing everything they say, but giving a nod, shrug, or “K” that does not give them at all, if not very little ammunition. It drove the last call crazy before she flipped the scenario on me and reversed the entire story projecting her insecurities. She embellish the truth to the judge and made up lies. What we and the judge did was give in to her so she could just shut up. Then, he took out all her accusations on the worst kind of mutual restraining order in my life. Also you can give a narcissist way too much supply. Give them so much power that they have no idea what to do with that. Overwhelmed their ego to where it falls and breaks them into a narcissistic mortification or collapse. Additionally, mirror their actions. A narcissist may act like they love themselves, but they have no internal validation, which is why they rely on that narcissistic supply. if it is possible, the one thing they despise most is themselves, which is why they require others to understand them and feed into their nasty behaviors to enable them and justify just how they act when they know deep down it could be wrong. Help them base their own demons by showing them exactly how they treat you. Ostracize them from your life and cut them out like they did to you in the discard phase. Here, however, this is the most dangerous technique on dealing with a narcissist. Use it very sparingly and only a last resort. The big whole smear campaign and proxy wars. If you must, you can turn everything they have said against them and twist their words exactly as they do to yours to gaslight, victim-blame, or neglect your needs. Never allow them to be that close to you. Know at any second you can sue them right after you broke down their walls and infiltrated them so much they are in infatuated with you and they will not fight for themselves. Make them just love-bomb you so much that they do not care if you go to court and will not retaliate. That was the last strategy for how I deal with narcissists but I’ve never gone to court over them before. I do allow myself to black rock them most of the time and have them learn to embarrass themselves on their own because they are extremely good at humiliating who they are and destroying their identity when faced with new adversity in the highest form of a mess they created not me or you or anyone but themselves. Let them dig their own social grave. You can’t fix stupid, but you can let it break someone. Not that that’s nice, but if you need to step away and walk away forever for your life, that is your own prerogative and volition. If you feel you are in a abusive toxic relationship, do not hold back. Never let them devalue you and then worship you as if a goddess or God. They love to suck up to their authorities and create institutional pity. They can abuse their own power and influence to control you, but I never let them. They never knew behind the scenes. I was always the one controlling them to make them head to the extremes and destroy themselves so much that they will never come back from it. I never lost my power, but for those who have, take it back! Show they how strong we all are as one unified front on the Mighty! If anyone needs any pointers, I am always available to talk. I, too, am gifted at art as well. If you would like to be taught in any way or form I would do it completely cost free out of the kindness of my heart, you can ask me for that as well. I hope my blog gives you bliss. Below is a strategy on how to manage anger I learned from 988 and it has worked miracles in my life just like the WRAP (wellness, recovery, action plan). Make your own strategies and learn to help me help you through my insights. Take this from a dark empath that fights behind the scenes to try and protect those I care about, which is now everyone in this community who deserves to be treated with humanity and not cruelty. I hope my message finds you well! Enjoy!
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